Well, I had some ambitions around posting this week, but it's becoming increasingly clear that it isn't going to happen. So, for those of you in the US, enjoy what I hope is an extended weekend that includes friends and families. Just don't go at it too hard. Be safe . . . or else.
For our friends in England, this tongue-in-cheek reminder:
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August 1st. Yorkshire Day, proper expression of independence. ;-).
ReplyDeleteBTW, can vouch that the claim in this week's poster has merit :-).
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DeleteHappy 4th, everyone!
ReplyDeleteI got another motel spanking this last Friday night. We were not on the ground floor and the motel was empty, so there was little chance of discovery.
What was different was that as Ann and I ate in the Texas Roadhouse, with so much ambient noise, and we discussed spankings, and MY spankings!
In particular, I exhorted her to whisper in my ear, in public, that I was getting a spanking when we got home. She was agreeable! We have never talked at this level. I don’t like her passive- aggressive approach, but she let me know I have two spankings coming. That will be 6 in two weeks!!
All that said, my head is still spinning that we spoke of my spankings in public! Ann spoke ( not whispered) about how many whacks my BARE bottom should receive.
It’s a new world!
While it hasn't happened much recently, several of Anne and my deeper conversations around DD have been in restaurants.
DeleteAnd, btw, I'm a big Texas Roadhouse fan.
We have a long term house guest (a disabled vet) right now and probably for the next year.
DeleteFor some reason, two of our implements are reason are missing: our rubber paddle and our wooden frat paddle facsimile.
Tonight Ann and I had the conversation that if Libby, our guest, found the implements and asked about them, then Ann would honestly answer that she used them to spank me to keep me in line.
I hate the thought, but it is freeing. We agreed that if the conversation happened, Ann would be free to spank me with Jillian in the house.
I hope it never happens! I can’t imagine coming out of our bedroom to cook dinner after a spanking, knowing that Jillian had heard and known what had happened.
For some reason two of our implements are missing.
DeleteAnd it should read: We agreed if the conversation happened, Ann would be free to spank me with Libby in the house.
I can’t imagine being asked if I am okay, and having to answer that I got what I deserved!
If the rubber paddle went missing, thank whoever lost it!
DeleteSeriously, looking forward to hearing how things with Libby work out.
I’m on the fence. I almost wish that Libby would find the implements while she helps Ann clean, and the conversation would take place.
DeleteIt would make scheduling so much easier. It would be freeing, and probably make Ann’s warnings more effective by being public. And yet, I have no desire or fantasy of an aural witness. But it would definitely increase the embarrassment factor, which is important for me. I’m very conflicted!
I definitely can understand the conflict. It does seem like it would be liberating, but with lots of follow-on embarrassment.
DeleteThe agonizing thing about aural "witnesses" is that I have no proof of who heard what, so my imagination runs wild. I still interact socially with many of the people who were at the party where I was spanked upstairs. I have even thought about asking a friend or two what they heard.
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We also were big Texas Roadhouse fans. Tasty, quick, and cheap. I am sure I was threatened with a spanking there many times. My wife changed my approach to waitresses and other restaurant workers.
DeleteIf we had had a house guest for a year, she definitely would have known about our DD. There would have been no hiding it for that long.
KOJ
Happy July 4th everyone, I took the liberty of reposting a Motel spanking memory from last week. I’ve had a few motel spankings as well. I remember one time we were at a hotel and I received an erotic spanking, with a prelude to a wonderful lust filled night of debauchery. My wife opened the door to go get coffee in the morning and simultaneously the couple next door was leaving. The wife was toting her Bible, with her husband in tow. She looked at my wife and said “you are shameless”. My wife told me she gave the husband a wink and sauntered down the hallway to get coffee. The wife said let’s go Howard and pick your jaw up off the ground. To this day, we both get quite the chuckle out of that story. I think the wife thought my wife was getting spanked. Little did she know it was the opposite.That wife clearly wore the pants. We couldn’t stop laughing about it the entire day. Of course, we were much younger then.
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That one does crack me up. I like your wife's style.
DeleteA secondary post from this week. We are away for the 4th at the beach and I received a spanking for a bit of an attitude. I actually apologized. I had worked and was exhausted. We left very early the next morning and I admit, I was a bit annoyed and aggravated. The AirBB we rented had a wicked wooden spoon that my wife saw. I actually pulled it out and she said absolutely. Bend over young man. It was well over 400 to my now very tender backside. I’m sitting quite uncomfortably today. She said today, how’s your bottom. I said very sore. She stated, good there’s more where that came from. She kept the wooden spoon by the bed. I’m hoping not tonight. I still have some oval rings on my bottom. Happy 4th everyone.
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"She kept the wooden spoon by the bed. I’m hoping not tonight." Good luck with that.
DeleteI am very sure that spoon got put to use again soon after. I am waiting to see if a report is forthcoming.
DeleteMy wife made sure to have a set of oversized wooden spoons hanging in the kitchen. They were her go-to implements in that room when she wanted immediate correction. And yes, they do leave oval circles on the butt. Like an Olympic ring tattoo!
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My wife always keeps a spatula handy in our kitchen, more for quick reminders than actual spankings. She has me bend over with my pants or shorts at half mast right there. I'll receive 4 or 5 smacks and a warning from her that I'm headed for more serious consequences. I had one of these about a month ago that did not lead to a true spanking.
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Dan,
ReplyDeleteHere's a discussion idea: Specific behaviors of the spanked husband that were successfully changed by DD, and specific behaviors that weren't changed successfully, and speculation on why DD changed some and not others.
KOJ
I will "second" KOJ's suggested topic of which behavior are most amenable to correction / reduction with DD, and which are not. I might add, as an element of any such discussion, more details about (1) which behaviors are most likely deigned subject (or "prioritized") to / for such corrections, and which are not, (2) which behaviors do wives emphasize correcting vs. husband's asking for DD-assistance in correcting, and (3) how / why husbands and wives "prioritize?" (This could easily take two, or more, weeks of discussion.)
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