Saturday, March 15, 2014

The Forum - Qusetion of the Week #37

Hi everyone. Welcome back.  Well, we did not get much reaction to last week's topic about contracts.  The comments from the few who posted seem to all be variations of: "A contract may be a good idea at first, but only until the woman steps into her full roll as a Disciplinary Wife and starts delivering spankings whenever she feels like it."  And, rest assured, we will address that in a topic in the near future.

But, this week, let's have some fun.  Last week, Hermione over at Hermione's Heart asked what fictional character people would most like to spank.  I would like to hit that topic from the opposite angle.  What fictional character would you most like to be spanked by?

I can think of several, but right now I have a major thing for Jessica Peterson, the managing partner on Suits:

Successful.  Powerful.  In charge. Exudes control in every way.  Her entire demeanor says, "If you don't perform, or if you don't play by my rules, I'm going to sit down in this chair, put you over my tailored skirt, and beat your behind until you leave my office in tears."

So, who is your ideal fictional disciplinary wife, boss, teacher, etc.?

And, as always, please take a few minutes to say something in the Guestbook.  We haven't had new entries in quite some time.

Saturday, March 8, 2014

The Forum - Question of the Week #37

Happy Saturday to you all.  Sorry for being a little late in posting today. This week's question comes from one of our readers:

"Are written contracts a good idea? We tried it twice but it didn’t work for us but know another couple who use contracts successfully and read about many others. Contracts made us self-conscious and my wife (who went to law school) thinks they are inappropriate for discipline so we use a anytime any place for any reason system which works well for us."

How about the rest of you?  Have you entered into a contract spelling out our your DD relationship will work?  Think doing so is a good idea?

As always, please take a minute to fill out the Guestbook or submit a story.  Have a good week!


Saturday, March 1, 2014

The Forum - Question of the Week #36

Hi all.  I hope you had a good week.  Mine got off to a bit of a rough start.  In fact, it's been kind of a rough month from a personal behavior and personal growth perspective.  Looking back at all those resolutions I set in early January, I have gotten completely off track on almost all of them, which reflects a personal, but also a disciplinary, failure. 

Which leads me to this week's question.  Are you leading a real FLR or DD relationship on something close to a 24x7 basis?  Are you aspiring to such a relationship?  Or, are you aiming for something in which FLR or DD plays an important but lesser role? Or, is it just "funishment" and you're fine with that?

I hope you all have a great weekend and a good week ahead!  As always, please take some time to fill in the Guestbook (see tab above) if you haven't yet or if you have something new to say.  The Guestbook has a question relating to new topics, and I would really appreciate hearing any ideas you may have.  I seem to be going through a period of modest writer's block and am struggling a bit to come up with anything very interesting to ask.