Saturday, March 28, 2020

Delayed Post




Sorry all, but I'm delaying posting until tomorrow.  In the meantime, stay safe and healthy.

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  1. AnonymousApril 4, 2020 at 11:34 AM

    >>>do you find that DD is better at getting you to add a behavior or establish a good habit than it is in getting you to eliminate a bad behavior or break a bad habit?<<<

    I don’t really have anything new to say that I haven’t said before, but I see the purpose of DD within FLR a bit differently. I see spanking and other punishments less as behavior modification tools than as tools for maintaining the power structure of the relationship. We have a D/s relationship in which I am the acknowledged boss, and he is expected to be obedient to me. That isn’t a very normal state of affairs, and I don’t think it is always easy for my husband to do as he is told when I make real demands on him that benefit me, sometimes in ways that are quite selfish. A spanking, or even just the threat of a spanking, can help to reestablish a submissive state of mind if he starts to find the demands of FLR onerous.
    Danielle

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  2. AnonymousApril 4, 2020 at 11:36 AM

    Oops. I thought I was posting that under last week's discussion.
    Danielle

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    1. Dan - A Disciplined HubbyApril 4, 2020 at 1:22 PM

      No problem. Do you want to just copy the above and re-post it under the right topic?

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