1. My Wife is always right
2. I will not criticize or put down my wife's opinions
3. I will not place blame on others - especially my wife
4. I will not interrupt my wife when she is speaking
5. When in doubt refer to rule # 1.
Elegant and to the point. For purposes of the current discussion, however, I'm more interested in the fact the rules are posted than in their content. There are lots of degrees to which people in these relationships have "outed" themselves. Some not at all. Some fully open and out there. For those who are not fully out, are there some things that are out and open, or have been left so purposefully or on accident, that at least hint at the DD or FLR side or your relationship? Perhaps you have accidentally left some spanking implement out and someone saw it or could have seen it? Glenmore has his list of rules, which is apparently somewhat openly displayed -- to anyone snooping in his closet. Maybe you keep a spanking journal in a place someone could find it. Maybe a fraternity or sorority paddle hanging on the wall and that sees more current use than a casual visitor might imagine? It could also be something other than a tangible object. Perhaps a word or phrase she uses in public that you know means, "She's going to paddle me when we get home," but that people around might or might not pick up on.
I hope you all have a great week.