For those who are interested, an anonymous commenter left an update on one of my previous posts bemoaning the loss of the Disciplinary Wives Club website when it was taken down. It appears that it is back up and running, and available at: http://auntkaysdwc.com/abegin.htm.
I've also posted a new poll. This seeks to get at the extent to which being spanked when we were growing up correlates with adult interest in spanking and discipline.
Saturday, January 3, 2015
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It's great that they are back. I had dinner with Aunt Kay and her husband, many years ago now, and they are a lovely couple.
ReplyDeleteI too am glad they are back. I'm glad to see you joining us, as well. Welcome back!
DeleteIt's great to see DWC back up and running. I hope Aunt Kay starts to update it regularly again.
ReplyDeleteI'm looking forward to reading the results of the new poll. I was only spanked very infrequently, maybe a slap on the legs once every few months, except one memorable occasion when I was ten. strangely, I can't remember what caused it but I'd been sent to my room and sat on the bed, wondering what would happen next.
I recall my father charging into my room in rage with a piece of garden cane in his hand. Before I could work out what was going on, I was over his lap being whacked on my bottom and thighs. I was soon weeping, and recall thinking everyone outside would hear me - so embarrassing for a ten year old. I was too grown up to be treated like this!
It was more shock than pain at what was going on apart for one stroke that caught me right at the top of my thigh, under my bottom cheek - and took my breath away. When it was all over I laid on the bed, whimpering but thinking just about that one breathtaking stroke. It was a horrible experience but fascinating in a way I'd never experienced before. I suppose that was the start of it all.
I dreaded the cane at school - I think it was more the thought of reliving that humiliation of all those tears, but I so wanted to experience that breathtaking moment again....
Thanks, RM. Hope you had a great holiday. I plan to address this topic more, once the poll closes.
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Dan
ReplyDeleteAm a faithful follower of your blog. Havent contributed much. When I was 10 I was sent to live with one of my Dads aunts. My folks were hippies and were very much into travel, mostly to south america and india.
Both parents believed in self expression. When I went to live with Aunt Anne I was rather smart assed and didnt follow rules. Till the time I went to live with my Aunt on a date farm. It was there I received my first spanking. It was with a large wooden spoon. When that didnt work she moved it up and on every Friday after school, i went to the barn and there bare bottomed leaning over a bale of hay she used ruler, belt and finally a riding crop.
Today at 46 I still have an attachment to being punished with a riding crop.
Thanks for a great blog
sean
Sean, thanks for joining. I hope you'll become a regular contributor. And, your story about getting spanked over a hay bale -- well, long time readers of this blog may know that is an especaially powerful image for me:
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Thanks for sharing!
Dan
Dan
DeleteI went back and read that entry. Sort of frightened me. Seeing that photo, well it reminded me of the fear, heat and later the warmth I felt. Perhaps I need to rent a
few hours in a barn. Thanks and I will try to contribute on a regular basis now that I
have seen the world doesnt come to an end by sharing our bests and current desires.
sean
Yes, there is definitely something very iconic about barns, bales of hay, or storage sheds where spankings are concerned. Unfortunately, we live in an urban environment -- no barns anywhere in sight.
DeleteWhen I tell people I was never spanked, they look at me like I'm an alien, because nearly every kid that grew up in my generation was spanked. The main reason I was never spanked (and I'm proud to admit this) is because I behaved. I was never a disciplinary problem at all. I followed the rules and did what I was told to do.
ReplyDeleteI think I fetishized spanking because of that. Even though I'm "in charge" I enjoy receiving the occasional spanking. Yes, it's a sexual thing for me when I receive it, at least most of the time, but I also believe in requesting a spanking for "attitude adjustment," and I expect those to go on until I'm sobbing uncontrollably.
Not having been spanked as a child, I enjoyed spankings I saw on TV and in the movies, don't know why. Living in the South in my 20's I was attracted to older women and it was Bea who gave me my first spanking. It was not a sexual spanking, in the South respect to a woman is a given, I was shocked, she addressed the problem in the kitchen and when you love someone you do anything and so I did as told, she bared my bottom and I found out how hard a spanking can hurt and how good a woman is at spankings. We parted ways a year or so later and she introduced me to a girl more my age, I know Bea told her about the spanking, because Connie a good old fashion southern girl is very good with her hand and also learned the hairbrush is something one should avoid.
ReplyDeleteDan - thanks for posting the info about the DWC being back up - good news indeed! My Mom spanked me occasionally when I was a small child but inconsistently and not really all that effectively - though I do remember a few painful switchings. However, when I was ten years old, her younger sister (my aunt) gave me a very sound bare bottom hairbrushing when I was spending a couple of weeks with her one summer. While at that time I was only concerned with how much it had hurt - and making sure that I did not get another one during my visit - as I hit puberty soon thereafter, I began to remember the paddling differently, and I think it would be fair to say that this was the event that triggered my life long attraction to maternal style discipline.
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