This week's topic touches on some things we've talked about before, but I don't think I've presented it quite this way before and, even if I have, I now have a new personal context for it. The question is: As you have handed over more control or authority to your spouse as part of Domestic Discipline or FLR relationship, have they ever taken things in a direction you didn't anticipate, were not ready for, or didn't like?
I raise this now, because it has happened in my own relationship over the last few months. As I have alluded to a few times, last year we talked about exploring something a little closer to an FLR relationship, with her exercising more dominance on a daily basis and in areas that didn't really have anything to do with correcting bad behavior. It does not come naturally for me but, of course, if I enjoyed it then it woudn't really be an act of submission to her control -- it would just be something that fills my own needs or desires. But, my wife, on the other hand, is displaying signs of liking the "service" aspect of FLR, so there is a good likelihood that she will keep it up. thereby making 2015 a challenging year for me.
How about everyone else? Tell us about any instance in which your spouse took the relationship in a direction you weren't really prepared for or had a hard time accepting.
I hope you have a great week.