Hi all. I hope your weekend is off to a good start. I'm catching up on the stuff that inevitably piles up during a vacation. I hope to post something but it likely won't be until Sunday or Monday. Hopefully, we still have some people who want to comment on last week's topic who haven't had time yet,
Friday, April 11, 2025
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We had some family over the house on Friday and I was obnoxious to my wife. She actually aggravated me a few days before and it carried over. My big mouth got me into trouble as usual. My Mother was in the room and made a sligh comment of, “ you’ll be sleeping on the couch tonight”, my wife didn’t skip a beat and said he will be standing all day tomorrow. She was upset yesterday. Of course,
ReplyDeleteI apologized for my stupid remark.
She responded you will be sorry for the comment, after I whip your bare bottom. I blushed immediately which she picked up on. She said, your bottom will be much darker than your face when I’m done with it. I have errands to run this morning and she told me to be home by noon sharp. She will have the instruments ready. I did a longtime ago have a dream about my wife punishing me in front of my Mother. It was a strange dream as it is not a fantasy of mine. I don’t think my Mother picked up on the standing comment.
T
T, if your mother spanked you when you were a kid, I think she would probably have understood your wife’s remark that you would be standing all day. My mother would definitely have caught that. Your mother’s comment that “you’ll be sleeping on the couch tonight” was a reference to a common way that wives punish husbands, banishing them from the bedroom to the couch. Therefore, when your wife said without missing a beat that you would be “standing all day tomorrow,” the implication that you were in for a different form of punishment seems clear. My mother would have understood that because when I was a kid, she sometimes couched spanking threats in similar terms, saying something like, “If I have to tell you again, you won’t be able to sit for a week, mister!”
DeleteI could be wrong, but I don’t think spanking threats of that form were unique to my parents. They were part of the culture. Maybe your mother understood your wife’s comment but didn’t react so as not to embarrass you too much. I wonder whether your wife intended to give your mother a strong hint that she spanks you?
Doug
Yeah. I wondered that as well. My wife made one other comment another time. We were in a specialty store that sold all sorts of dishwear ect. They had wooden spoons. My wife made an off the cuff comment about how she needed to buy one of these for me. My Mother used all of the classics. Your cruisin for a bruising, wait till we get home, I’m gonna beat you till you can’t sit for a week, do you want a spanking? All the classic ones. At this stage of our DD, I wouldn’t care if my Mother knew my wife strapped me. I am well aware of my deficiencies and it’s why I approached her about DD. I’m might be embarrassed but I’d get over it quick. As long as it’s never brought up in front of the rest of our family and friends.
DeleteT., I haven't had dreams about being spanked in front of my mother, but I have had a dream about being in a car with her as she was preparing to pull over and spank me. She was also present in a dream in which I was taken out of an office function, to be spanked by our office manager. My wife and stepdad were also there in that dream. Like you, I don't have any sort of fantasy about being spanked by my mother. In fact, she's probably the remaining family member who I would least want to know about our DD lifestyle. I don't think she'd be judgmental about it per se, but it just isn't something I'd want her to know.
DeleteI have wondered how much mothers who did spank at home know or pick up when their sons become involved in female-led DD relationships. In some cases, it might be a lot. After all, if your mother used spankings, she will be sensitive to the signs and signals that a spanking has occurred or will occur. Those signs are hard to miss. So, these little off-hand remarks some of us are reporting are not likely to be missed by mothers who themselves spanked -- and for sure, something like coming across a left-out paddle will be noticed.
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I agree, Allan, that mothers who spanked are probably sensitive to signs and signals of disciplinary relationships. My mother is no longer with us, but I think she suspected that my marriage had a D/s vibe. On more than one occasion when I was helping her do something and I was running late, she worried that she would get me “in trouble at home.” I suspect that sisters, like mine, who saw their brothers spanked while growing up may be able to read the signs too. About 10 years ago, I visited my sisters out west without my wife. I went with my two of my sisters into a sort of novelty shop that had lots of unusual clothing and footwear, some of it a bit kinky. One of my sisters pointed to a pair of high leather boots that I would call dominatrix boots and joked that I should buy them because they would be perfect for my wife. My sisters both had a good laugh about that. I laughed too, but I think I might also have blushed. I don’t know whether my sisters have guessed that my wife actually spanks me, but that joke seemed to indicate that they perceived a D/s vibe in my relationship with my wife.
DeleteDoug
I did have a second fantasy. The first part actually occurred. We were on our way back to the cruise ship and there was a female customs agent at the entrance. I had a bit of an attitude at something that had occurred earlier. She overheard something I said, looked at my wife and said to her, you should whip him into shape. My wife didn’t skip a beat, after some libations, and said oh don’t worry, I whip his bare bottom good when out of line. She responded, good you could tell his arrogant ass needs a good beating. I know I blushed. Afterwards, I did fantasize about that island women giving me a thrashing; for bringing back something I shouldn’t have and being caught. My wife was present during said whipping with a satisfied grin on her face.
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