Sorry folks, but I'm going to be delayed in posting. Yet again. Unfortunately, we have house guests, and I just don't have the private time to put a post together this weekend.
Sunday, January 24, 2021
Delayed Post (Yet Again)
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Do your guests ever see (or take part in) your discipline?
ReplyDeleteNo.
DeleteYou are lucky to have house guests. We cannot. Hopeeveryone is covid free
ReplyDeletebottoms up
Red
It's extended family. I'm also increasingly the odd-man out on vaccination. Thanks to their professions, most of my immediate family and their significant others were at the top of the line for vaccination, and some of them already had the virus. I'm about the only one who has neither been vaccinated nor had the virus (that I know of). And, I don't fit into any high-priority group, so I'm guessing it will be several months before I can get vaccinated.
DeleteHouseguests...............hmmmmmmmm (evil smile comes over face).......husband's been especially naughty..................calls for a more severe disciplining. Husband required to dress in maid dress, answer door, bring in guests' luggage, show them to room. Discipline him in front of guests.....make him provide sissy maid service the whole time they're here...............hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteRight now, we're still on holiday hiatus, but that is over in a little over 3 weeks. The first couple of Disciplinary Sessions after the holiday hiatus are always more severe than usual. Hmmmmmmmm..........ideas, ideas, ideas........something new...................
Miss Cecilia,
DeleteYou are probably far ahead of most of us in the light-bulb moment department. It would be interesting to hear your “guest’s” reaction to witnessing or otherwise learning of your disciplinary methods: do they react in front of him. Are they amused, aroused, titillated or just blasé about it all. And does it influence their own relationships at all. My experience with witnesses is limited to two different women, one who might have gone on to introduce DD to a very deserving husband (or might not, I don’t know for sure) – the other is with my wife’s sister who wants a similar relationship with her husband but he is resisting it. (I do believe the males who need discipline most tend to resist it the most. So what are your thoughts on it all: are witnesses just part of DD in your home or does it play a crucial role in the success of your DD beyond any impact on your husband?
Alan
It would have to be houseguests who already know about us or who I can be sure I can trust to be discreet. Except at parties or events, husband has said the safeword against male witnesses unless they're disciplined husbands/boyfriends too. So if it was houseguests who didn't know about us, it would have to be s woman who's interested in seeing husband receive discipline. Some of these ladies have been like you describe, they'd like to discipline their husbands or boyfriends.
DeleteI've used witnesses to humble husband many times. Their reaction runs from amused to aroused and sometimes a combination. I encourage their participation in the form of making comments. Also, when I require husband to provide sissy maid service, I give the witnesses bells and encourage them to ring them and be as demanding as I am.
“Husband has said the safe word against male witnesses unless they're disciplined husbands/boyfriends too.” I have never been spanked in front of another male or have any fantasy for it to happen. However I have been in a “near” situation with a friend who pushed his wife too far one night when we all had too much wine. His wife had his pants down and I was about to join him when his wife decided to deal with him later. It was a very close call but I realized later I wouldn’t have been that embarrassed to be spanked in that situation where he was also being spanked. So like your husband the presence of another disciplined husbands/boyfriend makes it a very different situation. Once on this blog we had a couple that posted regularly (Anna & Peter) who have unfortunately disappeared, but as I remember, they were moving into something like that. (Peter was being disciplined alongside a friend as I remember it). A former girlfriend who introduced me to DD kept suggesting she was going to spank me in front of a close male friend that she also knew. It never happened and I think she realized how much I didn’t want it to happen. My friend was a macho type never likely to come under feminine discipline or understand it. That may be what makes the difference –being spanked in front of another guy who gets it and is also under female control might be emotional but not traumatic. The reverse situation would be very different
DeleteAlan
Miss Cecilia,
ReplyDeleteYou said, "I've used witnesses to humble husband many times. Their reaction runs from amused to aroused and sometimes a combination."
A few times my hubby got bratty and loud mouthed when we were with friends. I think he might have been testing me, or forgot his place. When he ignored the looks I was giving him he didn't ignore me when I said, "Ok. Funny. Just wait." It snaps him back to better behavior. The phrase "Just wait" resonates with my husband because he knows discipline is probably coming. Incidentally, this coming weekend is his birthday. I'm not a mean disciplinarian all the time. He does too much for me. I plan to give him a birthday spanking and some exquisite teasing and erotic tasks he won't forget very soon. He know it's coming and he's been very affectionate.
As far as other people knowing anything specific, we keep disciplinary aspects of our marriage private. My sister and another friend know I'm the boss in the generic sense, and possibly others, but my husband would be uncomfortable with others seeing him getting disciplined. There was a time I would be afraid of anyone knowing, but if he were open to it that could make things different today. Some of his kinkiness might be rubbing off on me.
Carol H.