It's good to be back. Sorry for missing last week. Things were a little hectic. They still are, but bad habits are often acquired through small lapses, so I know I can't let missing or delaying postings become a habit. And, I would miss all of you.
I will begin this post with a confession of sorts. We have been in a real lull where discipline is concerned. It has been at least two months since my bottom was last warmed, and I wish I could represent that it was because my behavior has been pristine. Hardly. It has just been a crazy busy time for both of us. One big impediment has been holiday parties and other social gatherings. Seems like we have had a social engagement virtually every Saturday for weeks, and most of our discipline happens on the weekends. With such socializing comes over-indulging (always an issue for me and the number one reason I get punished), so at exactly the moment I most need to be reined in, it is the least likely to happen.
So, this week's topic is those lulls or pauses in the disciplinary relationship. Have you gone through one? Did the issue eventually fix itself, or did you change something to get the process back on course?
One option I was mulling today. We have always waited for the bad behavior to occur, then she would order a spanking to address it. I was considering suggesting that we instead simply presume that I will be spanked on a pre-set day each week, and the only way it will not happen is if I have been well-behaved. It would really turn our current system on its head, because I would really need to earn my way out of each weekly spanking. Any thoughts on whether that would be a good thing to explore?
Have a great week!