This blog focuses on disciplinary spankings. Last week we talked a little bit about where we are spanked. This week, let's focus again on "for what"? When we first began our disciplinary relationship, it was focused on addressing larger issues and things that had a tendency to piss her off in a big way. Drinking too much. Giving her attitude. Those kinds of things. Until recently, she didn't use disciplinary spankings to address "smaller" issues. Like dropping the ball on household duties. As she gets more assertive, that is changing. A few weeks ago, she texted me a picture of some pans I had left on a stove, having failed to clean up completely after dinner. She voiced her displeasure. A few days later, she texted me a picture of a rice-cooker that I had forgotten to clean several nights before. This time, the picture was accompanied by a terse statement that I would be spanked that night. And, she carried through on the threat that night, giving me a very thorough butt blistering.
This seems like a small incident in some ways, but it really impacted me in a much deeper way. It was the first time that she had really taken me to task not for something related to some larger failure in personal discipline, but for something that simply dipleased her or failed to live up to a standard she expected. While minor in the scheme of things, it seemed like a fundamental turning point in our relationship, and a huge advance in her growth as a Female Leader.
Another recent example. A week ago, I stayed up late watching a movie. I got up the next morning and left to run some errands. While I was out, I got a very angry text:
"You left the refrigerator door open last night! Everything in it is spoiled!"
I replied with a heartfelt, "I'm sorry."
"Not nearly as sorry as your are going to be!" was her response.
And, once again, she carried out her threat, leaving me sore for several days. Now, this one was not really a failure to do a chore or some task, but it was a very stern warning to pay attention or there would be consequences.
So, how about you? Are you spanked for simple screw-ups, like forgetting to do a household chore, or because some lack of attention or diligence lost some ? If not, do think that is something you would like to explore?
I also wanted to take a few minutes to thank some of our new commenters, including John, Ed, Carl, Dave and others. And, especially our new Disciplinary Wife contributors, including Dan and Holly. Hope I didn't miss anyone. Thanks to you all for your contributions, and welcome to our little club.