When I started this blog, I was not at all sure what I wanted it to be. The most heartening feedback I have gotten is when someone has described this as a "relationship" blog. It's great that it has developed that way, because it wasn't really what I was thinking when I started it. As the title reflects, I initially saw it as a place for some disciplined husbands to get together and talk about, well, being disciplined husbands. It has obviously grown both wider and deeper. As my own relationship has gone from pretty straight DD to something incorporating more aspects of a broader Female Led Relationship, I've tried to expand the blog topics accordingly, while also trying to maintain some focus on that subset of FLR relationships that use corporaral punishment and other disciplinary tools to foster her leadership and his submission to her authority. It also has expanded to include several regular Disciplinary Wife contributors, and some of them have, in turn, brought their husbands into the conversation. Or vice versa. So, what began as a forum for a few disciplined men has expanded into something a little more. Something that hopefully faciliates an exchange of experiences and ideas among disciplinary couples.
Now that I've gone all self-important and pretentious-- :-) --let's get to the real source of this blog's success, namely the experiences of our disciplinary husbands and wives. In honor of the 100th iteration of this participatory forum, I want to ask everyone to contribute to our community in this way: If you could give one piece of advice to other couples who are exploring a DD or FLR relationship, what would it be? Conversely, if you are interested in having such a relationship or just getting started in one, what is the one question that is most on your mind and that our forum participants might be able to help with?
I hope you all have a great week!