This week's topic extends from one of last week's comments, it's probably something we have covered a bit before. Unfortunately after two and a half years of blogging about a single overarching theme, it's getting increasingly hard to think of a truly original topic. But, let's give this one a try and see if, given all the new contributors, we can do something different with it.
This week's question is, to what extent is your domestic discipline or FLR relationship motivated by a fetish for spanking? Is spanking a tool you use to serve the higher purpose of imposing discipline and correcting bad behavior, or is all the talk of a higher purpose really just a gloss imposed on what is really a deep seated need for a good bottom warming?
I do reject the notion that I personally have a spanking fetish per se, at least to the extent that a fetish typically involves some long-standing compulsion or interest. I realize I seem to be an exception, but I really don't think I ever once thought about adult spankings, whether erotic or disciplinary, until I was in my late thirties. I'm very confident that I didn't have a fetish for F/m domestic discipline, as I had never even heard of the concept until I saw a reference to the Disciplinary Wives Club. Now, I do admit that I found that reference while looking for spanking-related material, but we had only recently began incorporating some playful spanking into our erotic relationship and it was really just something to spice things up.
So, how much of your interest in domestic discipline is really motivated by a desire to be spanked, versus a need to be subject to other authority, a desire to be led by your wife, or some other factor?
Have a great week.