Hello all. Welcome back to The Forum, our weekly gathering of men and women who are in, or would like to be in, Domestic Discipline or Female Led Relationships. I hope you all had a great week.
Personally, I am having a really, really hard time switching from holiday laziness to something resembling productive work. I just don't feel very motivated to get back into the workaday grind. Thankfully, MLK Day here in the U.S. came along and gave me another slight reprieve. I hope you all enjoy yours as well.
As I talked about last week, I've been in a bit of a "bad boy" kind of mood. A little more focused on fun and games than I was in 2017. In fact, it's a bit of a departure from my usual mindset. I tend to be fairly intense by nature, and I'm sure my attraction to DD is related to that intensity in some way. As with the rest of my life, I gravitate toward an intense form of accountability and seem to need more intense and rigorous consequences. Now, I'm probably not going to get very far in any effort to change that, because it just is who I am. But, what I think I can aspire to is a bit more of a "work hard, play hard" variation of intensity, with a little more emphasis on the "play" aspect that has been under-served the last few years.
So, what does all this have to do with today's topic? Well, thinking about play seems to lead kind of naturally to thinking about sex. At least for those of us with a bent toward the kinkier things in life. We've talked before about whether DD is inherently sexual or driven by a sexual desire, so let's not focus on that. What I'd like to talk about instead is the extent to which Domestic Discipline has enhanced (or not) the quality of your sex life.
I've been thinking about these things not only because of this general stirring of my inner "bad boy," but because after years of doing DD, my wife does seem to be getting more sexually aggressive as a result of her increased focus on FLR. It's subtle, but she is initiating sex more often. Not just initiating, but commanding. Earlier this week, she sent me a text simply telling me that we were going to be having sex that night so I needed to make sure I wrapped up all work and other activities by 9:00. In bed, she also seems increasingly prone to taking over, grabbing my hair, twisting nipples, etc. It's a pretty exciting development, and I've told her I hope she keeps exploring her sexuality in these ways.
So, tell us how Domestic Discipline has impacted your sex life, or how you would like it to. Wives, I would love to hear more from you on this topic in particular.
Have a great week.