These thoughts about real life interfering with our best intentions provided an easy segue into a blog topic. What aspects of the rest of your life interfere the most with your efforts or goals regarding DD or FLR, and what do you do, if anything, to try to minimize or mitigate them? Are the interferences family related, work, social activities, business travel? Or, do you simply not allow such things to interfere when punishment or discipline has been earned? One aspect of this that I am particularly curious about is whether all or most of the major interferences are also tied up in the fact that for most of us, the DD and FLR aspects of our relationships are something we keep hidden from others. Would being more open about this thing we do result in it being a deeper and more regular part of our lives? Imagine how much our lives might change if all our wives had no problem with something like this:
I hope you all have a great weekend.