Hi all. I've been wondering whether having all this spare time on my hands while recuperating would lead to big flashes of inspiration for writing and create lots of mental space to read new books, try new streaming series, etc.
Turns out, the answer is a resounding no. I have zero inspiration for blogging, I've "did not finished" several books, and instead of watching anything new, I've worked my way through entire series that I've seen multiple times before.
Given the lack of anything resembling inspiration, I probably won't be posting this week. Feel free to suggest possible future topics.
Have a great three-day weekend, for those of you who live in the U.S. and have the time off.
thought you might like to reflect on this from so long ago!
ReplyDeleteThe Benefits Of Getting Spanked
Many people believe that if someone likes to get spanked, it is all sexual. That is not the case all the time. Even though getting spanked has some sexual effects or enhances sexual arousal, there are many non-sexual benefits from getting spanked. What can spankings do for you?
1. Getting spanked relieves stress.
2. Getting spanked is calming.
3. Getting spanked generates endorphins and puts you in a euphoric state.
4. Getting spanked generates adrenaline and gives an adrenaline rush, especially if you are anticipating getting a very harsh one.
5. Getting spanked lifts moods. Russian psychiatrists have found success in treating depression with bare butt whippings.
6. The marks left from getting spanked is like an art of its own.
7. For some, it can restore feelings of youth.
Don’t be ashamed of getting spanked, enjoy it! For those who never tried it in your adult years, give it a try. You never know, you may like it.
Rodney Calmes
personally: I am not in anyway ashamed of being spanked, but would only want people who agree with spanking to know that I am spanked.
The post above is mine, but I forgot to change from anonymous. Hope your recovery is progressing. bottoms up Red
ReplyDeleteThanks, Red!
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ReplyDeleteShould a spanking be concelled by good behaviour?
Should a spanking be cancelled by bad behaviour by the wife?
Both of these were allowed recently by my wife during a weekly maintenance.
Though I do believe that the answer should be a definite NO (particularly for maintenance), I did not contradict her because she does have the right to decide on all punishments.
We had had a busy week and there was an argument just before our “Report Card” meeting. She admitted that she was at fault and therefore wasn’t going to give the maintenance spanking. She acknowleged that I had been very good all week as well, so a spanking wasn’t needed.
In my opinion, a maintenance spanking is designed to be a reminder even if there have been no offences. This should always happen. And if the wife has done something wrong, that is irrelevant to any behaviour by the husband. We haven’t agreed to ay punishments for her. The husband needs to be held accountable each and every time.
Any thoughts?
My wife does maintenance anyway. I might get verbally commended on how I handled something, but the maintenance usually keeps me on good behavior. We both know that when we skip it, the atmosphere deteriorates. We have become mostly about preventative rather than punitive. She will administer a spanking when we are going into a situation where she wants me on good behavior. She remains the decision maker if I need to be punished for something, but the maintenance and preventives help us to avoid that. Maintenance also helps us to stay with the dynamic without dry spells.
ReplyDeleteMaintenance spanking is more about maintaining or reinforcing her authority rather than control or modification of any specific behavior. . They are not part of our dynamic although she does use preventive spanking which is a version of maintenance. Whether a couple uses maintenance or not should depends on their objective. If its reinforcing the female authority, no doubt they work very well. But if the objective is specific behaviors no matter when they occur,spanking for cause probably works best.
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Red Often suggested the topic of what we get out of being spanked, and listed several reasons. In addition to the ones he gave, here are a few more additions to his 7 reasons.
ReplyDelete8) It will make a wife more confident and will usually improve her assertiveness in the relationship, and often, in other areas of her life. She will probably be more confident.
9) It will make her husband more sensitive to her needs and he will probably help out more often with regular household tasks. He will be more vulnerable, honest and open with her.
10) It will provide more intimacy and honesty for the couple about what they really need.
11) A man who is spanked regularly by his wife or partner will probably be less macho, and more considerate. He will appreciate her and want to please her, and listen to her concerns.
12) She has a reliable method of stopping arguments, by asking "Do you need a spanking?", which replaces her traditional method of expressing her anger, which is to withdraw.
13) It keeps spanking happening, so there is no awkwardness to get back into it after a break.
14) It helps a couple set aside time just for them, which many couples never have.
15) It is a direct challenge to patriarchy, which is oppressive to both men and women.
Greg brought up the topic of maintenance spanking, which is something most of us have tried and many still practice. We included maintenance spanking in our DD for the first 5 years, and it really worked well to establish her position of authority. We still do something like it, but now all the decisions about when to spank are up to her. She has complete authority to spank for any reason, and she knows when I have gone too long without a spanking.
Maintenance spanking isn't for everybody, but it's a good idea to try it out, as it provides so many benefits, and establishes a routine for spanking. Most of us would prefer to be spanked for punishment, which makes it more real. However, it is a good place to start, so a couple can get used to this radical new way of having a different kind of relationship
Red Often, there is an additional important benefit I left out. Many guys like myself, or Dan, grew up with unstable parents that gave us few or no boundaries. We both have wives, or partners, that will give us firm boundaries by spanking us when we break rules. That can provide a form of reparenting, which can truly be life altering. Most guys like us don't realize they need bounderies until they are at least 40 or older. I now drink much less and drive slower than I used to, because the result of doing so will result in my getting a disciplinary spanking
ReplyDeleteFirst off, what I sent you has been around for about 40 years or more. I did not make it up, but agree with it. We have evolved in spanking,in that Cindy would spank me only on request, and timidly. We had a couple of really brutal items, and I got rid of them. The whippy cane and the dominator from Aunt Kay's website, whereas the otehrs were very effective. I have come to wish I had kept them.
ReplyDeleteI benefit immensely from being spanked, and Cindy has grown to getting satisfaciton by spanking me hard, and changing or at least modifying my behavior greatly. A warning now works wonders, partly because I do not want to diisplease her , and partly because if she is mad I do not want to be spanked when she is mad. A spanking then would be fierce.
Overall , we are both very satisfied with her ability tro spank me when she decides it is needed, and thus no nagging, hurt fewelings, unhappiness on her part. She is quite happy to see my bottom being pink or red after a morning shower, when the spanking happened at midday the day before.
I still find everything about being spanked erotic, except the actual spanking.
Cindy is much more confidant, and expresses her opinion, which I respect.
I agree with all tehe xtra points Norton mentioned.
bottoms up
Red
For the longest time, I didn't have any DWC implements. Their store was largely down by the time I found the DWC. I now have a few items that Kay's "Jerry" has sent to me, but the Dominator isn't one of them. I don't really remember what it was.
Delete"I still find everything about being spanked erotic, except the actual spanking." Same here.
FYI, I added your blog to my blogroll.