tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post6925983262148066894..comments2024-03-28T06:38:35.203-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Forum - Vol. 185 - All I Want for Christmas . . .Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-70781444037891082912016-12-31T19:56:48.547-08:002016-12-31T19:56:48.547-08:00Turns out she had a wooden hairbrush I'd forgo...Turns out she had a wooden hairbrush I'd forgotten about. And was willing to try the giant paint stirrer I'd picked up at Home Depot. Now I can't wait to hate them again - Happy New Year!<br />CrimsonKingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-84612833810586655492016-12-23T12:48:20.974-08:002016-12-23T12:48:20.974-08:00Or that SHE does!
Merry Christmas to you and Pete...Or that SHE does!<br /><br />Merry Christmas to you and Peter!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-53973239702481567062016-12-23T12:03:51.555-08:002016-12-23T12:03:51.555-08:00Dan
Perhaps he feels you have a longing for an 18 ...Dan<br />Perhaps he feels you have a longing for an 18 inch long dildo! Merry Merry!!!<br /><br />annaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77058533963519311462016-12-23T08:37:24.041-08:002016-12-23T08:37:24.041-08:00I hadn't really thought of that, but our postm...I hadn't really thought of that, but our postman is probably asking himself, "Why does that guy get so many packages that are about 18 inches long, four inches wide and an inch thick.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-60288239396219367432016-12-23T07:10:29.629-08:002016-12-23T07:10:29.629-08:00For me even picking up the parcel at the post offi...For me even picking up the parcel at the post office is embarrassing. Will they know what is in the box. If coming from outside Canada will customs paperwork make it obvious. Will they know it's to be used on me? <br /><br />The fun nervous butterfly anticipation. <br /><br />irusernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77150622513857372912016-12-22T10:40:45.391-08:002016-12-22T10:40:45.391-08:00Peter's story reminds me of how effective losi...Peter's story reminds me of how effective losing your underpants can be.Some spanked husbands talk about the power of being made to wear woman's panties before, during or after a spanking. But I read very little of men being stripped of their briefs as part of discipline> When we lived apart my girlfriend would sometimes during a phone conversation simply tell me she wanted me to " deliver my underpants" This meant I had about 20 minutes to strip off, put them in a zip-loc bag of some sort and report to her house to be spanked.After the spanking she either put me in a pair of her panties to wear for several days or just sent me home without any underpants for the rest of the day and until she gave me permission to put another pair on. It seems a simple thing but it was deeply embarrassing at the time and underscored that I had just been spanked as well as very uncomfortable.I wouldn't admit this to my wife but I would much rather be put in panties after a spanking than have my underpants taken away<br />Alan Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-47030284011295875652016-12-22T07:33:27.460-08:002016-12-22T07:33:27.460-08:00Logan, you are fortunate to have found an outstand...Logan, you are fortunate to have found an outstanding resource, and a safe place.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-71691941337530202402016-12-21T14:45:05.254-08:002016-12-21T14:45:05.254-08:00Hi Logan,
Everyone is friendly here and interested...Hi Logan,<br />Everyone is friendly here and interested in learning.This is the place for you if you and your fiancee are interested in Domestic discipline with a wife or girlfriend in charge and spanking a main form of discipline. You might want to go back and read some of the weekly discussions to get a better idea of specifics. When you are ready to ask questions just toss some out and there will be opinions offered ( on almost everything)One other thing I could add and that is keep your fiancee in close communication as you go forward. That is one of the keys to a successful journey in DD.<br />Good luck <br />Alan<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-75344018652090501042016-12-21T14:25:34.522-08:002016-12-21T14:25:34.522-08:00Hi Logan. I think any time a couple tries out a l...Hi Logan. I think any time a couple tries out a lifestyle that is radically different from what they've been doing, there are going to be difficulties. And, if a woman has not been Dominant in the past, she is in fact going to have to do some changing if she wants to be in that role now, and id you aren't used to submitting that is a very hard transition, too. But, it's all called "growth." Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-63593482365411522352016-12-21T14:22:45.031-08:002016-12-21T14:22:45.031-08:00Thanks, Marisa. I probably need to search a littl...Thanks, Marisa. I probably need to search a little harder for the right store. I accept that I do need the humbling such a visit would entail. I hope you and Anna both have a great holiday!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-16758260235892178782016-12-21T13:30:43.389-08:002016-12-21T13:30:43.389-08:00Marisa
We can only hope that is true! Happy Holi...Marisa<br /><br />We can only hope that is true! Happy Holidays to you !<br /><br />your sister I'm discipline<br /><br />annaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-69951730899142235012016-12-21T13:01:06.902-08:002016-12-21T13:01:06.902-08:00Hello Dan
Anna's suggestion is wonderful. Thos...Hello Dan<br />Anna's suggestion is wonderful. Those stores are plentiful in metro areas. you should find one and follow Anna's instructions. I think Peter is on his way to becoming an exceptionally well behaved husband.<br />MarisaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-30527697200550972442016-12-21T12:51:54.310-08:002016-12-21T12:51:54.310-08:00I agree Anna, though I'm not sure of where wou...I agree Anna, though I'm not sure of where would go. Most of the adult stores that I know of near where we live don't have anything worth buying. Mainly just flimsy leather paddles. But, I'll give it some thought.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-49272946323013958192016-12-21T09:26:52.638-08:002016-12-21T09:26:52.638-08:00signed your friend
annasigned your friend<br />annaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-73243834535072390712016-12-21T09:25:50.739-08:002016-12-21T09:25:50.739-08:00Dan
I think this would be an excellent practice f...Dan<br /><br />I think this would be an excellent practice for you and your wife to start in the New Year. At the very least you should have to go on your own pick it out and during the transaction make it clear the object being purchased is for use on you.<br /><br />: ) Happy HolidaysAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-50896919841564435062016-12-21T08:57:55.106-08:002016-12-21T08:57:55.106-08:00That would definitely chasten me!That would definitely chasten me!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-35527690460314612732016-12-21T08:56:18.628-08:002016-12-21T08:56:18.628-08:00I can only imagine. One of my biggest hang-ups is...I can only imagine. One of my biggest hang-ups is public embarrassment, so I'm sure I would find something like that really mortifying. I've honestly gotten embarrassed buying paddles online if the seller asked by email whether it was going to used on me or on someone else.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-36208123430738880422016-12-21T08:34:23.214-08:002016-12-21T08:34:23.214-08:00I also have a Spanking in progress sign I bought s...I also have a Spanking in progress sign I bought so when my hubby is going to receive a punishment spanking he has to carry the sign and hang it on the door it always makes him feel like a little boy and I always have him address me as Ma'am or Mommy during his spanking - I have a well behaved husband !Janet !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64779637220347153272016-12-21T07:05:02.358-08:002016-12-21T07:05:02.358-08:00I can relate that this is both effective and memor...I can relate that this is both effective and memorable (buying discipline instruments in a public place where it was made clear they were going to be used on me) It happened to me just once with the girlfriend who introduced me to discipline. She took me in a store in a large city near us known to sell paddles and related items. At the time she was shopping for a strap and made it clear to the young woman helping us it was to use on me.The woman never missed a beat but took us back to a large collection of straps pointing out the benefits of each. There were several other people in the smallish store and anyone cold hear her comments if they wanted.I would compare the experience to the first time being spanked in front of someone.Not as intense or embarrassing as that but a sort of public announcement that I was spanked and this was the woman who did it.<br />Alan Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-61163069623912590762016-12-20T11:27:05.570-08:002016-12-20T11:27:05.570-08:00That's almost exactly what happened when I too...That's almost exactly what happened when I took my hubby to a small dry goods store in rural France to select a martinet - and letting the lady who ran the store how it would be used (she approved!). L. was embarrassed (there were two other women in the store who may or may not have overheard the exchange) - but he was the one who paid for it! :-)<br /><br />J. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-40060459830643967422016-12-19T09:34:44.708-08:002016-12-19T09:34:44.708-08:00While it's probably getting a little too close...While it's probably getting a little too close to Christmas to get anything delivered in time, for future reference I've had good luck with paddles from Paddles by Walt and,for something more custom and personal, Miss Rose on Etsy has some really nice pieces in exotic wood. Adam & Gillian has some really nasty rubber straps and some other nice items. For really high quality straps, try the London Tanners.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-47343272282441565902016-12-19T08:45:25.013-08:002016-12-19T08:45:25.013-08:00Janet
What a marvelous idea! We will be visiting f...Janet<br />What a marvelous idea! We will be visiting family for the holidays andI think I will take <br />Peter on just such a shopping trip. Think if I do it as a surprise it might add that extra<br />wallop!<br />AnnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-83448783657990470412016-12-19T08:23:31.620-08:002016-12-19T08:23:31.620-08:00That's awesome, Janet! Thanks for sharing.That's awesome, Janet! Thanks for sharing.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-89456496778443967902016-12-19T08:06:39.087-08:002016-12-19T08:06:39.087-08:00A couple of years ago I found a small shop that so...A couple of years ago I found a small shop that sold paddles I made my husband go with me to the shop I made him wait in the store with me while the saleslady helped me find the perfect paddle She looked at my hubby and I told her some young men never grow up - he gets to feel it often . Janet !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77058513422425304032016-12-19T06:45:26.672-08:002016-12-19T06:45:26.672-08:00"Can't wait to hate it!" Absolutely..."Can't wait to hate it!" Absolutely brilliant. I want the Tee Shirt.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.com