tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post6351877113481409466..comments2024-03-28T06:38:35.203-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Forum - Vol. 196 - Tools of the TradeDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-66016996553092950262017-04-17T11:26:05.071-07:002017-04-17T11:26:05.071-07:00Just a comment on the cane issue, not being very e...Just a comment on the cane issue, not being very effective. I swear by buying canes from England, eBay had sellers that ship worldwide. Canes come in very different diameters and length and weight. Usually the smaller diameters 1/4" are more stingy, but can leave welts to the bottoms of those less abused on the buttocks. 3/8" diameter can be a very effective cane if used full force. This will leave good welts and can be very painful. If you have a Dragon cane this diameter, it will deliver a more servere cut asst full force. Because it is more dense and heavier than a standard cane. If the caner snaps the wrist toward the target, just before the cane lands, this will add a bit more speed to the cane and add to the severity of the stroke. If the wife is having trouble with tempo or accuracy, set up a pillow over the end of the bed, and have her practise her swing hitting the pillow. She may find gripping the cane to make it a bit shorter will help greatly with her accuracy. As long as there's room height wise in the room, she should raise cane to just above her shoulder and whip it forward in a slightly descending motion towards het target. Again practise will improve accuracy and force. A better positron for beginners is having the subject lye face down on a bed with hips raised by pillows or towels. She can then swing in a downward motion, changing sides of the bed, to make sure the whole bottom is covered. The subject getting caned can also be restrained in this position, so a proper caning can be administered. Good luck, but definitely buy the canes from England!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-22745707003248905932017-03-21T18:46:07.141-07:002017-03-21T18:46:07.141-07:00being on a farm--we have plenty of stuff to get sp...being on a farm--we have plenty of stuff to get spanked with--While a spanking is very infrequent it sometimes does work fine for us---I just pick up some sort of stick from a lot of junk in the barn and tool shed---I am not a happy guy when I am carrying it in to take a spanking from---She deserves to vent her anger for certain stuff so no argument for me---Only once with s real skinny long stick and it cured me of anything as skinny as that---what ever I choose it hurts, when I am getting it and I am swearing "Never again" In reality it means "Not for a long while" I never got a spanking I did not totally deserve---Its good we are on a farm as I ma a total spanking wus with a lot of loud "I'm sorry" "It hurts way too much"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-27073937242031838832017-03-09T20:06:05.538-08:002017-03-09T20:06:05.538-08:00While the tawse is my wife's preferred punishm...While the tawse is my wife's preferred punishment implement, a riding crop has also been used If I do not lie still and take my punishment. For the crop I am ordered to bend over and hold my buttocks apart and then my butt hole is spanked - very painfully so!Jon Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77301280912618896262017-03-08T19:49:06.453-08:002017-03-08T19:49:06.453-08:00Welts are a part of almost all our spankings.Welts are a part of almost all our spankings.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-50922353728892482182017-03-08T19:48:19.191-08:002017-03-08T19:48:19.191-08:00I'm sure that's at least half of the equat...I'm sure that's at least half of the equation!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-84396482478433897322017-03-08T19:47:13.164-08:002017-03-08T19:47:13.164-08:00We have one Lexan paddle, though we don't real...We have one Lexan paddle, though we don't really use it any moreDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-88803100100100487112017-03-08T19:44:52.563-08:002017-03-08T19:44:52.563-08:00Ouch!Ouch!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-39963646539641938712017-03-08T15:48:26.671-08:002017-03-08T15:48:26.671-08:00Real (or original) martinets have leather -not rub...Real (or original) martinets have leather -not rubber!- thongs, and although they are now harder to find, they are still sold in small towns in France. N. (my late wife) got one years ago (after explaining to the woman who ran the store how it would be used!), and J. followed suit some years later (in a different place). Both made a point of hanging the martinet on the kitchen wall, where it could -and still can- be noticed by their (female) friends, although not when we have 'mixed company'. Like N., J. uses the martinet as a "supplement" to spanking when 'needed' - unless she feels some harsher 'treatment' is required...<br /><br />L.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-74919647987726797182017-03-07T22:00:14.004-08:002017-03-07T22:00:14.004-08:00Once of the worst (best) spankings I received, bac...Once of the worst (best) spankings I received, back when I was getting spankings from other men, was from a Jokari paddle. In four years of hindsight, I'm thinking the effect may have come from the determination of the spanker, rather than from the implement used.Merryslavehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11209310275450354399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-91195719231509795812017-03-07T15:59:44.740-08:002017-03-07T15:59:44.740-08:00N. and J. -both excellent tennis players!- always ...N. and J. -both excellent tennis players!- always knew how to swing effectively, be it with a martinet, a strap, a switch, a rattan cane, a carpet beater, a crop... (and also, in J's case, that leather bridle!) Strong wrists is what it takes... but, fortunately for me, not too often! (Spankings, on the other hand, are/were far more frequent!)<br /><br />L. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-40121203535033669732017-03-07T13:35:57.540-08:002017-03-07T13:35:57.540-08:00Well we have an old oversized wooden ping pong pad...Well we have an old oversized wooden ping pong paddle that is very effective ... believe me! It is smooth wood on both sides and ... gets the job done. Only once received a spanking with what was available at the time ... my leather belt ... left me with welts ... more like a beating than a spanking.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-51825292658437117872017-03-07T11:37:07.027-08:002017-03-07T11:37:07.027-08:00We have several different types of implements but ...We have several different types of implements but at least 90% of the time Rosa uses one of two Lucite paddles....one slightly heftier and oval, the other a bit lighter and rounded. These see the most action despite there being other weapons in the arsenal......some quite nasty. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-75870866471096342132017-03-07T08:01:28.460-08:002017-03-07T08:01:28.460-08:00A "Rainbow" flip flop is just a brand. ...A "Rainbow" flip flop is just a brand. It is not a cheap, couple dollar flip flop. It is well made and a bit firmer but still has the flexibility to slap the bottom really well.<br /><br />LuvinhubAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-88201547613077516032017-03-07T07:26:56.186-08:002017-03-07T07:26:56.186-08:00Thanks, Jon S. Bruising and marking might be a go...Thanks, Jon S. Bruising and marking might be a good subject for a separate topic. I personally find that my susceptibility to bruising has changed dramatically over time. When we first started, 20 with a paddle would leave me really badly bruised. Now, 7 or 8 times that amount with a variety of very hard tools will often not result in very much bruising the next day.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-87529276698821917332017-03-07T05:42:41.322-08:002017-03-07T05:42:41.322-08:00Your point is well-taken that the tool is only as ...Your point is well-taken that the tool is only as good as the craftsman using it. A particularly determined or angry disciplinarian can make the most of a bad tool, while an uninspired one may not do much with even an formidable instrument.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-14594255640571451422017-03-07T05:41:17.160-08:002017-03-07T05:41:17.160-08:00Sorry, but what is a "rainbow flip flip"...Sorry, but what is a "rainbow flip flip"?<br /><br />You're right, ping pong paddles should also be in the list of implements that people seem often to think would make a good disciplinary tool but just don'tDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-27412146472597190142017-03-06T23:15:50.368-08:002017-03-06T23:15:50.368-08:00L started with a paddle brush; purchased with the ...L started with a paddle brush; purchased with the assumption it would be effective because 1.) it was a hairbrush. And aren't hairbrushes the 'tool of the trade' for spanking?, and 2.) it had the word "paddle" right there in its name. Turned out to be all but useless. It was too light weight and the air cushion the plastic bristles were attached to absorbed a lot of the impact. She moved onto a smaller, but solid wood, hair brush. That created some discomfort while being applied. But that was about it. After that, she moved onto paddles; both made of hardwood and sized for OTK spanking; one lighter weight, the other heavier, with holes. That's when getting a spanking took a turn towards actually being a punishment. <br /><br />We never went beyond that. Just as certain phrases can effect one person deeply during a scolding, while having no effect on another, I think implements and positions are just as personal in terms of what resonates. L never spanked me any other way but across her lap (not including swats while standing). Canes and straps... bent over, or lying prone... they just seemed too clinical and disconnected for the way discipline worked in our relationship.<br /><br />I will add that, in my experience, the old phrase, "it's not the tool, but how you use it" can also come into play when it comes to spankings (much like Dan's example of Nu-West covers). When I think of the two worst spankings I got from L, there were outside factors that definitely contributed. With the one, we were traveling in the off season and seemed to have the seaside motel we were staying at practically to ourselves. Unlike at our apartment, where neighbors hearing usually existed to some degree as a concern, L didn't seem inhibited at all to let loose. The other time actually was at our apartment. but L was too upset to care. And I think that was the difference. Up to that point, spankings had been more matter-of-fact, "You didn't do what you were supposed, so now I'm going to spank you." But this was something she was really upset about. There was an intensity in her determination to punish me that I hadn't seen in her before. And I felt it ...and then continued to for a while after. <br />-HAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64094530031885802272017-03-06T22:57:40.188-08:002017-03-06T22:57:40.188-08:00Yesterday my wife ordered me to lie on my stomach ...Yesterday my wife ordered me to lie on my stomach with a pillow under my hips for a belting with l Lochgelly tawse. 70 strokes were given and 8 hours later my butt was inspected and found to have only slight bruising so I was told my next spanking will be more severe. DD has strengthened our marriage and my chastity device stays on during and after my disciplineJon Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-41473752583373800672017-03-06T10:04:12.778-08:002017-03-06T10:04:12.778-08:00We seem to "play" at DD currently. My w...We seem to "play" at DD currently. My wife is not as consistent as I would like in holding me accountable. However, I have experienced a few items that you have mentioned and a few that you have not. The ones that you have mentioned; the leather belt for sure got my attention, the bamboo hairbrush was moderate but last she used it it split and pinched me, a kitchen wooden spoon though light stung quite a bit and only wanted to experience a few swings. Ones that you did not mention; a yard stick left quite a bruising, a plastic cutting board was an eye opener and probably didn't help that the surface is not smooth, currently she is using a ping pong paddle which I said did not leave the needed effect, the last time she upped the ante and had me begging to stop but within 5-10 minutes it was over. The worst that I have experienced to date was a "Rainbow" flip flip the length of time probably didn't hurt but that thing stung. She used it before we had dinner guest, at dinner and the next day or two had me squirming in my seat.<br /><br />LuvinhubAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-87722710408694527312017-03-06T05:54:17.909-08:002017-03-06T05:54:17.909-08:00I remember seeing it offered on the DWC website. ...I remember seeing it offered on the DWC website. I'm now glad I never ordered one.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-80350147773861451682017-03-05T21:00:40.401-08:002017-03-05T21:00:40.401-08:00It's true that 'modern' hairbrushes ar...It's true that 'modern' hairbrushes are flimsy - and not suited for spanking! Both N. and J., however, own(ed) a couple of the old-fashioned hairbrushes inherited from an older generation... and those, I can assure you, remain as effective as ever!<br /><br />L.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-89055182979869825872017-03-05T20:40:02.550-08:002017-03-05T20:40:02.550-08:00Four years ago, in a Spanish 'parador', we...Four years ago, in a Spanish 'parador', we discovered (well, J. did, actually) one of those long shoe horns that was one of the amenities provided to all guests, but it was entirely made of some (tropical?) hardwood - and J. couldn't resist the urge to try it on my derrière (along with the hairbrush and the martinet she always packs in her suitcase when we are traveling). That shoehorn was effective (and fun to use -at least for her!) but no more so than the two other 'tools' - and noisier (which she doesn't mind as much as I do)...<br /><br />L.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-39857666040054180572017-03-05T18:30:20.553-08:002017-03-05T18:30:20.553-08:00If mine are that diligently sneaky, then they'...If mine are that diligently sneaky, then they've earned whatever glimpse they get!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-59594824003945550902017-03-05T14:12:08.154-08:002017-03-05T14:12:08.154-08:00Dan,
I hope that your combination lock is more se...Dan,<br /><br />I hope that your combination lock is more secure than most. Most have just three digits per latch. When I was in school, my brother had a briefcase that had two latches. Each latch required the right three digit combination. He was very protective of it. So one day, when all were out of the house, except for me. I spent the time going through different combinations- 001, 002, ... After I got it open, it was full of his old text books. It was a joke and a well set trap. He had also set it so he could tell if it had been opened. We both got a good laugh, but I had wasted about two hours.<br /><br />Joe2Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-26259870193586708592017-03-05T12:42:39.097-08:002017-03-05T12:42:39.097-08:00We have one from the DWC that is called the Domina...We have one from the DWC that is called the Dominator. Heavy rubber with a convenient plastic handle.<br /><br />Thankfully it is kept put away, like the Guest Towels. I am not enough of a stud for it to even be viable for me. But we do get the occasional visitors when she finds it appropriate to invite the visiting wife to try out the Dominator. I am not privy to the discussions. But I have to assume that the guys are on the tough-butt side.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.com