tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post3342808309374471663..comments2024-03-29T03:08:12.803-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Forum - Vol. 205 - Dan Gets Spanked, Multiples and Asking For It Revisited . . .Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-28657538023454829592017-07-04T10:33:41.837-07:002017-07-04T10:33:41.837-07:00Hi Anonymous. It's a complicated "proble...Hi Anonymous. It's a complicated "problem," and if I knew exactly why I haven't gotten there it might be easier to solve, but I don't. I think it is a combination of things, including: (a) resistance to being embarrassed; (b) an absurdly high ability to take physical pain; (c) not being taken down a few pegs emotionally before the spanking starts; and (d) the pain being severe enough at the beginning that my resistance to it spikes in a way I can't control even if I want to. I do think it is likely to happen at some point, but so far, no.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-81873451888665494302017-07-04T01:42:27.458-07:002017-07-04T01:42:27.458-07:00Dan, I feel so bad for you. I really wish you cou...Dan, I feel so bad for you. I really wish you could get the tears going. It feels so wonderful once you get there, it really does. Are you afraid you will feel embarrassed?<br />There is no need to feel this way as you are there alone, with only your most trusted partner at the time. I had difficulty too, but once my wife brought me through to crying the first time, it has become almost easy now. I really hope you can achieve this. The first time was the most powerful experience for me. I sobbed in her arms for ten minutes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-66274518493394658652017-05-26T04:42:42.085-07:002017-05-26T04:42:42.085-07:00Hi Dan
I can relate to your experience of having t...Hi Dan<br />I can relate to your experience of having trouble sitting after a severe spanking and having to hide the 'evidence' from others such as showering at the gym.<br />My wife takes great pleasure regarding the fact her spanking is responsible for my sitting difficulty and loves to remind me of that and tease me about it.<br />Occasionally she has 'hinted ' in front of others without actually stating the reason for my squirming.She likes to time my spanking prior to us going out to dinner and teases me about sitting on a spanked bottom.It's almost like the spanking continued for days.<br />Thanks for sharing your experience.<br />Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-37189090380987972882017-05-14T08:44:36.155-07:002017-05-14T08:44:36.155-07:00I do like the Real People section on the DWC, thou...I do like the Real People section on the DWC, though when I look at it in terms of what it was about the site that put me on the DD path, it really is some of the fiction stories like Even More.<br /><br />Yeah, real life has a way of undermining our strongest belief about what could never happen in reality.<br /><br />The frustrating things about trolls is I find that what people advise me to doesn't really seem to work. I've had several bloggers advise me to just delete troll comments without responding, but I must get more persistent trolls than others do. They just keep coming, until I do something to escalate the conversation in way that sends them slinking away. And, I've seen the same thing in on other FLR blogs. The more the blogger excoriates the troll -- or just plain makes fun of them -- the sooner they go away. My theory is that most trolls are bullies at heart, and ignoring a bully tends to encourage them. They stop bullying after you pop them in the nose.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-75331206452634190342017-05-14T06:29:12.869-07:002017-05-14T06:29:12.869-07:00Agree with your agree :) But for me, the Real Peo...Agree with your agree :) But for me, the Real People section on Aunt Kay's site have always been my favorites.<br /><br />And I also agree that sharing fantasies is great. Just not posing and pretending that it's real.<br /><br />I totally get your point that at times there is no way to know if something is real or not. But at other times, it is so obvious...I have been astounded at some things I have seen in real life that I would never have believed actually happen.<br /><br />Sorry about your troll. They are like fleas or roaches. All you can do is try to keep them mostly under control.<br /><br />Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-28577247125157381832017-05-13T10:43:50.830-07:002017-05-13T10:43:50.830-07:00Hi Tomy. I agree totally about wanting genuine co...Hi Tomy. I agree totally about wanting genuine contributors and real sharing. That doesn't necessarily exclude people sharing fantasies or fictional accounts. As you know, some of the best content on the DWC site is in the Fiction section. I'm also not comfortable that I can always discern whether a particular account is truth or fiction. Even on things like mother-in-law stories, there have been one or two contributors whose stories seem credible and have the ring of truth, even if 98 others are probably total BS. What really hacks me isn't so much stories that don't relate something that really happened, but rather these obsessive compulsive renderings of the same scenario over and over again, week after week, with only slight variations on the theme. It's just the conversational equivalent of farting in public. And, I'm just tired of one particular person farting on my blog every week.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-56845154489691769532017-05-13T08:42:30.968-07:002017-05-13T08:42:30.968-07:00I'm stuck at your previous stage where Scotch ...I'm stuck at your previous stage where Scotch is concerned. I tend to stick to beer, wine and tequila these days, but I can occasionally enjoy lots of other spirits. Except Scotch. I just really don't like the taste, and I wonder whether it tastes differently to different people, kind of like some people like cilantro and to others it tastes like soap.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-74041229030024207142017-05-13T06:02:24.850-07:002017-05-13T06:02:24.850-07:00What a relief to see you calling out what are obvi...What a relief to see you calling out what are obvioulsy fiction/fantasy postings. I keep quiet about it because I don't want to be a trouble -maker. But this blog is all about genuine contributors and real sharing. Thanks. Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-8042224739031846012017-05-12T18:35:28.862-07:002017-05-12T18:35:28.862-07:00Dan,
Joe3 here,
Yes, 12 boutique beers would be ...Dan,<br /><br />Joe3 here,<br /><br />Yes, 12 boutique beers would be rather excessive, but they are wasted on me. I stick to Coors light and the like. The trip is more fun than the destination. Now, a good tawny port and a cigar- concern with the world's foundational problems can always be solved with the reflection. Scotch- for me that is liquid crack. If I decide to drink scotch, I will have nothing before and nothing after and no more than three. I used to hate the taste, until I went out with a girl whose Dad was a scotch connoisseur. I cannot explain it, but nothing good will happen after four servings. But, the first two are wonderful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-21459376236277029852017-05-12T15:46:40.786-07:002017-05-12T15:46:40.786-07:00Hi Frank. I think that is my wife's general v...Hi Frank. I think that is my wife's general view as well. Though, the problem I see in their thinking is they are just assuming that the pain is more of a deterrent than crying or becoming more submissive. I think the opposite is more likely true. I find the prospect of crying to be far more emotionally threatening than the hardest spanking is physically threatening. And, being humbler and more submissive means I am more likely to follow the rules in the first place. Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-63948717213091964522017-05-12T12:46:27.160-07:002017-05-12T12:46:27.160-07:00Dan your wife and my wife are kinda the the same p...Dan your wife and my wife are kinda the the same page on how they deliver punishments. My wife will start at the beginning full force with the harshest implement. I had the same discussion with her about starting out so hard to no avail. My wife has told me she wants me to remember the pain of the spanking rather me crying or a submissive mind set. I do try to avoid them because of the sometimes overwhelming pain.<br />FrankAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-72674575663336732692017-05-12T09:14:38.698-07:002017-05-12T09:14:38.698-07:00Carl, you are giving the posting more credibility ...Carl, you are giving the posting more credibility than it merits. This is one of those that, if submitted to Penthouse would begin with, "I never thought this would happen to me, but . . ." followed by the writers wanking fantasy. Based on the writing, this one (plus two or three others in this chain and in last week's as well) is pretty clearly "Sean," who insists on posting the same general thing every single week including the standard scenes of him getting spanked, being put against a wall, and someone witnessing it, then he rubs his bottom and does his spanky dance. Over and over and over. Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-25696344043026452462017-05-11T12:00:03.426-07:002017-05-11T12:00:03.426-07:00None of my previous comments have been critical so...None of my previous comments have been critical so if this one doesn't fit just delete it. I was a cop and the policewoman named here did not behave professionally nor did you wife handle this very well. You did not say how impaired your were so there is a question there involving her discretion. But while in uniform she should not have agreed to being involved in what amounts to an extrajudicial punishment. Had she agreed to serves as a witness when out of uniform and not connected to the stop, tha would have been fine.I am not opposed to a wife utilizing a witness to enhance the punishment but not this way, Secondly your wife should not have spanked you if you were impaired. The question of consent is raised by her doing so but so is the effectiveness of the spanking. Next day would have been better. Waiting until the next day would also made it less likely anger was distorting her judgement and less likely you could have been injured.I am not saying you did not deserve punishment or that including a witness was inappropriate. But the way it was done was not appropriate<br />Carl Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-57014406661923858362017-05-11T10:40:27.345-07:002017-05-11T10:40:27.345-07:00Dear Dan, I understand how you feel. My wife has...Dear Dan, I understand how you feel. My wife has convinced me to stop drinking. One night I got stopped by the police, fortunetly the female cop was friends with my wife and they left me off. She drove my car home while the other officer followed us. When we got home she went in the house and explained to my wife why she brought me home. She put me in the corner and told me she tend to me shortly. Thanking her friend for bring me home she told her I was going to get the spanking of my life. The police woman was thrilled when she heard that and said how would love to see that. My wife to her to come back when her shift was done and she would be more than happy to show her how to punish a deserving husband. Soon as the police woman left I started to plead and beg my wife not to spank in front of her. She always spanks me bare bottomed with her mothers old hairbrush till I am bawling like a girl. Around an hour later her friend showed up and my wife drug me by the ear to a straight back chair to a seat and pulled my pants down much to the delight of her friend as I beg and started crying be fore she even started to spank me. I was promising to be good that I would never drink again as my wife started with the hairbrush and gave a serious much needed good old fashioned spanking as she lectured me in front of the police who was enjoying the immensely. When she let me up I was crying uncontrollably not caring who could see or who was there. My wife put back in my corner sobbing making hold my shirt up to expose my fire engine red behind. I never took a drink after that. BobbyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-56047731784246402622017-05-09T20:05:54.122-07:002017-05-09T20:05:54.122-07:00I guess that means it's working?I guess that means it's working?Merry Contraryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605968415958113942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-78284530840206877622017-05-09T18:23:52.334-07:002017-05-09T18:23:52.334-07:00I saw that. Thanks for contributing!I saw that. Thanks for contributing!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-79694332332808282302017-05-09T11:16:52.075-07:002017-05-09T11:16:52.075-07:00Hi Anna. Sort of. I think we are increasingly doin...Hi Anna. Sort of. I think we are increasingly doing things her way, but partially because I keep trying to move things along toward her taking more and more control. It's not the fantasy ideal of a dominant woman who just takes over, but it's probably closer to the reality that most couples go through. There are times she definitely knows me better than I think, but other times she doesn't. I don't know how much anyone really knows another person and what really goes on inside. There are things where she probably has me dead to rights, and other areas where after 20+ years together, she still doesn't quite get what makes me tick, or vice versa. But, that's fine. Otherwise it would probably be predictable and boring as hell. Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-6059822819252623962017-05-09T05:47:36.339-07:002017-05-09T05:47:36.339-07:00Happy for you Amigo.
Happy for you Amigo.<br />Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-29972615594925958812017-05-08T21:12:16.758-07:002017-05-08T21:12:16.758-07:00Dan
Your response makes me wonder if perhaps she k...Dan<br />Your response makes me wonder if perhaps she knows you better than you think It seems to me that you are indeed doing things her way. Just a thought!<br />annaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-75824209003707432402017-05-08T20:29:57.315-07:002017-05-08T20:29:57.315-07:00Tina, Your discipline sounds a bit like what I wou...Tina, Your discipline sounds a bit like what I would receive. Eating at improper times or items is on my list of infractions as well. Also glad to see you use the concept of having him prepare himself for the discipline and them make him wait for your arrival. This happens to me often. The waiting is nearly as bad as the spanking.Spanked Cowboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03598628621654103370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-65068939829935964562017-05-08T19:19:52.224-07:002017-05-08T19:19:52.224-07:00This is a tough crowd. I tell everyone about getti...This is a tough crowd. I tell everyone about getting my butt blistered, twice, and everyone keeps telling me they are happy. ;-)Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-18810641390323368912017-05-08T19:18:32.865-07:002017-05-08T19:18:32.865-07:00I could see that having some interesting applicati...I could see that having some interesting applications for getting out of a spanking early . . .Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-17088411566524890802017-05-08T19:00:23.165-07:002017-05-08T19:00:23.165-07:00It does sound like they are not giving you a lot o...It does sound like they are not giving you a lot of good reasons to exercise your disciplinary dominance!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-19472827696978284862017-05-08T18:59:33.118-07:002017-05-08T18:59:33.118-07:00Hi Peter. Good to hear from you. I think our puni...Hi Peter. Good to hear from you. I think our punishment routine would probably be more effective if we followed yours and did not let me have any release, but she sees that as still depriving herself.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-20790291601830296442017-05-08T18:58:12.551-07:002017-05-08T18:58:12.551-07:00Hi Tina! Thanks for the contribution, and it soun...Hi Tina! Thanks for the contribution, and it sounds like you really found the formula for producing tears.<br /><br />Just to clarify, asking for punishment is not our regular routine. I am supposed to self-report bad behavior, but in the past we have avoided me asking for punishment or suggesting the severity. I did it this time because the situation really merited it, and I wasn't sure she would do it on her own. I would still prefer that she just take matters in hand herself, but I was pretty focused on being accountable for this particular situation.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.com