tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post2819013684470288851..comments2024-03-28T04:25:54.324-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Club - Meeting 349 - WitnessesDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger88125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-65465936809827411392020-08-29T03:27:34.211-07:002020-08-29T03:27:34.211-07:00Coming to the topic a few weeks late I hold a cont...Coming to the topic a few weeks late I hold a contradictory position. On the one hand for me all persons chastising my bottom need to do so on trust. For me its a private moment (whether Mrs GL or the occasional disciplinarian). I see no advantage to a third party either as an experience enhancer nor as fantasy fulfilled. So witnesses is a no. On the other side I have no problem being open about my spanking attraction in general, but usually with overtones of humour and to a select few confidants. In a perfect world I'd admit to being spanked but in this imperfect world I'll just skate on the precipice of exposure for the foreseeable. Cheers GLM. Good Life Mickeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08825377220244945340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-86836261829141236232020-08-09T11:27:21.254-07:002020-08-09T11:27:21.254-07:00Jokes that only a dad could fully appreciate...!
...Jokes that only a dad could fully appreciate...!<br /><br />Interestingly, I told my wife the week’s topic and she immediately rattled off all but 1 of my picks. Her co-worker she wouldn’t have thought of because my wife said she may seem open-minded and fun, but apparently she is ultra-traditional in her mentality.<br /><br />Still, I was shocked at how quickly my wife listed off the others.<br /><br />-ZMBad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-36899539420772207682020-08-08T10:51:49.281-07:002020-08-08T10:51:49.281-07:00Jennifer,
Thank you for your suggestion. It is som...Jennifer,<br />Thank you for your suggestion. It is something to think about. My husband and his friends are going on their camping trip and will do some fishing for four full days beginning next Saturday. I will visit my sister while he's gone, and that will be an opportunity to mention something. Should my sister say anything about him being away, I suppose I could respond by saying, "You know, I let him have his fun. I'm the boss and he knows he can only camp with his friends if he stays out of trouble. He's basically the guy that does most of the housework chores for me and it's a chance for him to let his hair down and do some fishing, relaxing, and have a few beers." (Actually, my boy is mostly bald and shaves the rest, but he doesn't believe it makes him look more masculine and sexy). I suppose I could gauge her response. I don't think I'd mention DD. It would be interesting.<br />Thanks,<br />CarolH.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-44370333377582801542020-08-07T14:18:49.349-07:002020-08-07T14:18:49.349-07:00I find this a bit interesting as well, the use of ...I find this a bit interesting as well, the use of the word 'permissive.' She's most likely not into DD, since you know her, but couldn't you "confide" in her the obvious.<br />Explaining that if you didn't trust him, your husband wouldn't 'be allowed" to go and saying maybe she doesn't realize it but you have the final say in these matters.<br /><br />Then monitor her response or reaction. If comfortable you could bring up something like, "Let's face it we all know most men need to be trained or taken in hand to some degree or another."<br /><br />You could comment to her, "you seem to keep.....on a pretty short leash right?" "How do you handle …?" JenniferAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-80912132041199799242020-08-06T14:32:51.655-07:002020-08-06T14:32:51.655-07:00Danielle, I'd gladly invite such people to com...Danielle, I'd gladly invite such people to come join in, as long as they were on the receiving end.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-50345406737460213652020-08-05T09:10:31.691-07:002020-08-05T09:10:31.691-07:00Very nice Danielle. :)Very nice Danielle. :)Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-69324906226518362562020-08-04T08:58:51.932-07:002020-08-04T08:58:51.932-07:00...and those people who may glimpse or overhear a ......and those people who may glimpse or overhear a spanking in progress while delivering religious tracts to the door are aptly called...Jehovah's Witnesses.<br /><br />Sorry, I couldn't resist. :-)<br />DanielleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-2689644530209556502020-08-03T16:53:14.452-07:002020-08-03T16:53:14.452-07:00"Hostile Witness" Ha"Hostile Witness" Ha<br />Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-78559264822885606442020-08-03T16:52:33.591-07:002020-08-03T16:52:33.591-07:00I missed the stage. Hey, humor is worth it's ...I missed the stage. Hey, humor is worth it's weight in gold there day.<br /><br />Acapulco Gold that is.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-80423058958511065942020-08-03T08:46:53.818-07:002020-08-03T08:46:53.818-07:00All of you belong on the stage -and yep the next o...All of you belong on the stage -and yep the next one is just about to leave town if you hurry.<br />AlanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-91903348742927275902020-08-03T04:23:02.418-07:002020-08-03T04:23:02.418-07:00.......and if you find someone who wants to watch ..........and if you find someone who wants to watch because they are angry with the intended victim and WANTS to see them spanked goo and hard......that might qualify as a ‘hostile witness’.😂Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64038210072442758252020-08-03T04:19:46.426-07:002020-08-03T04:19:46.426-07:00You can also bribe someone to be a witness...... b...You can also bribe someone to be a witness...... but that would be ‘witness tampering’.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-43218718646419083612020-08-02T13:29:16.086-07:002020-08-02T13:29:16.086-07:00That's so bad it's good. :-)That's so bad it's good. :-)Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-11103818416294913902020-08-01T14:05:12.239-07:002020-08-01T14:05:12.239-07:00Of course you have to make sure the witness feels ...Of course you have to make sure the witness feels safe that they won't get a spanking too. It's called a witness protection program. Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-87156115086053919242020-07-31T19:37:07.281-07:002020-07-31T19:37:07.281-07:00This is Arthur. I'm not much into hypothetical...This is Arthur. I'm not much into hypotheticals and I don't see us ever having a witness. I understand all the reasons my wife would choose her mother, but I would absolutely hate that. We are definitely not going there. I think her mother's knowledge of our DD has already affected my relationship with my mother-in-law, and her witnessing it would make it even worse.<br />I would rather be witnessed by a perfect stranger, someone we don't know who we would never see again. Pick them off the street. That's ridiculous and would never happen, but that's my answer.<br />Sorry I'm not a good game-player when it comes to private behavior.<br />Arthur<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-18740272699935196802020-07-31T11:59:14.078-07:002020-07-31T11:59:14.078-07:00perfect voyeuristic thrill also for the pesky hack...perfect voyeuristic thrill also for the pesky hacker who also has a spanking fetish. Much better than stomping around in all that expensive shrubbery at all hours. <br />AlanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-71284772324286621282020-07-31T09:31:03.518-07:002020-07-31T09:31:03.518-07:00You're right, Belle, spanked in front of an ex...You're right, Belle, spanked in front of an ex- would probably push a lot of buttons with most people. Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-54508521879098068172020-07-31T09:30:08.390-07:002020-07-31T09:30:08.390-07:00What is also intriguing about it is it opens up th...What is also intriguing about it is it opens up the possibility of a witnessed session that still protects anonymity to some extent. It could possibly even allow for anonymous "club" meetings among people who are open to talking to others in the lifestyle but without sharing real identities or contact information. Since Zoom is free for small calls, I assume that a host could set up an account using an anonymous email address, and invite others through email, without any actual sharing of real identities. Very interesting concept . . .Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-44838544903997396392020-07-31T08:04:37.968-07:002020-07-31T08:04:37.968-07:00Dan,
I agree about the mortification.Actually the ...Dan,<br />I agree about the mortification.Actually the woman Jimmy had a "little fling" with might be the most embarrassing to him and teach him an unforgettable lesson. Imagine being spanked in front of an ex-wife or any kind of ex. For a lot of reasons I am not sure it would ever be a good idea to actually do it, but the embarrassment would be off the charts.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-17886339660816810952020-07-31T07:51:04.917-07:002020-07-31T07:51:04.917-07:00Tomy could well be spotting a trend with zoom sinc...Tomy could well be spotting a trend with zoom since it is becoming almost pervasive for other communication during the pandemic. But the good old telephone on speaker works too. It reminds me of listening to old time radio dramas where one had to supply lots of imagination to conjure up an image of what was unfolding. <br />Alan<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-43228125418404078382020-07-31T05:07:08.996-07:002020-07-31T05:07:08.996-07:00It was never planned , but I have been over my wif...It was never planned , but I have been over my wife's knee a couple of times when the phone rang , and once she actually stopped to answer ! Thankfully she kept the call brief!Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-69924758823343013862020-07-30T15:48:58.627-07:002020-07-30T15:48:58.627-07:00No, though that's a really interesting thought...No, though that's a really interesting thought.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-66132719330867856712020-07-30T09:03:59.130-07:002020-07-30T09:03:59.130-07:00“Who would you choose to be the witness if, once c...“Who would you choose to be the witness if, once chosen, there was no getting out of it? Why? How do you think that person would react?”<br /><br />This is a pure thought experiment for me because I doubt any disciplinarian is going to give me or any other guy that choice. I have been spanked when it was overheard by one woman (by my former girlfriend) and spanked by my wife in front of her sister. My former girlfriend let me know in advance it “could” happen and my wife told me it “was” going to happen. But neither gave me any opportunity to choose who it was (in fairness my relationship with my wife gives her complete authority to make that sort of decision, so I really have no reason to expect to be consulted about who it is.) But who would I choose if asked? I probably would chose a women who had been or preferably still was in a DD relationship on either side of the paddle. In some ways I think I would prefer someone who themselves was subject to discipline or had been Why? Principally because she would fully understand what was going on and thus it all would be a shared experience rather than a show or exhibition (not saying all witnessed spanking is just a show, but there is an element of voyeurism in it) The other option I might choose would be something like two former commenters described on this blog (Anne & Peter) a while ago in which both wives observed and (I believe) participated in disciplining Peter along with his friend at the same time. That would produce the same shared experience as my first choice plus probably some pretty deep male bonding. <br />Alan<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-91688367561794379172020-07-30T07:40:27.928-07:002020-07-30T07:40:27.928-07:00Has anyone tried real-time media like Zoom for wit...Has anyone tried real-time media like Zoom for witnessing? Back in the old days we actually used plain old telephone a few times to share live spanking sessions with another couple. It was kind of cool at the time.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-35286746162651342332020-07-29T15:56:07.072-07:002020-07-29T15:56:07.072-07:00Miss Cecilia,
You said, "Disciplinary Session...Miss Cecilia,<br />You said, "Disciplinary Sessions for pornography and masturbation were frequent."<br />My husband was never into pornography, with the exception of some in college/teenage years. To his credit, he always had a high level of respect for women. Masturbation was a tough habit to crack with him, even after we got married. In that area, I was successful. A chastity device and extra household chores were pretty effect and I won't talk about it further than that.<br /><br />You also said you "extract promises to be good." I love that phrase.<br />CarolH.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com