tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post217518309176329872..comments2024-03-28T21:45:05.911-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Club - Meeting 400 - ConversationsDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-79601858001983983222022-06-07T12:07:38.359-07:002022-06-07T12:07:38.359-07:00Greg here,
My wife will , just to further embarras...Greg here,<br />My wife will , just to further embarrass me, after thorough punishment spanking with the long handled bath brush will march me over and stand me in front of the full length mirror and make me see how red she has turned my ass. Extremely embarrassing to be sure! No punishment is ever over until this ritual is performed Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-32430127910036966112022-06-02T19:03:52.292-07:002022-06-02T19:03:52.292-07:00I've had identical experiences with blood. She...I've had identical experiences with blood. She will stop because she sees some minor spotting. If I wipe a kleenex over it, it's virtually undetectable.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-52591497808826238702022-06-01T08:05:15.264-07:002022-06-01T08:05:15.264-07:00The comment related to annonymous comments was jus...The comment related to annonymous comments was just after my announymous post related to Xmas. Sorry for posting earlier without the name, or login, but few timea earlier when I tried to post with the name it was not published. Somehow doing it annonymosly helps in not being treated as spam.Jacekhttps://yesmymistress.bdsmlr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-74036543853814691122022-05-30T08:56:01.668-07:002022-05-30T08:56:01.668-07:00This very thing happened with me yesterday, as I w...This very thing happened with me yesterday, as I was spanked before church (which currently meets in the afternoon because we are sharing space with others), so I was quite conscious of my somewhat sore bottom. It could have been worse, since as usual, she stopped when she saw the first tiny droplets of blood, so there wasn't all that much damage. BTW, I think these blood droplets are quite interesting, since if you wipe them off, there usually is no new bleeding at all. It is almost like the pressure of the impact is just forcing a tiny amount of blood through a pore or something like that. Anyway, that often seems to happen somewhat earlier than much bruising or longer-felt damage sets in.<br /><br />-ZM<br /><br />Bad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-15336480451539594162022-05-30T08:50:48.157-07:002022-05-30T08:50:48.157-07:00I often get to feeling sorry for myself, and that ...I often get to feeling sorry for myself, and that has triggered punishments before, especially if feeling sorry for myself somehow leads to me being grumpy and/or taking it out on others. <br /><br />"My issue is that the punishment is not when I exhibit the bad behavior but when I get impatient and ask for it." - My punishments are almost never delivered even close to the time they are earned. It is not me asking for a punishment that triggers one (since that never happens), but rather just circumstances allowing it at a time that corresponds with her feeling like giving one. <br /><br /><br />My wife has used corner time quite a bit, but much less frequently recently. She still uses corner time, but it is not as much a part of punishments as it used to be. Probably part of that is because she often used it in between rounds of spanking, and recently she has not done many long, multi-part spankings. <br /><br />As far as being sent to bed early, she has not really done that one, though one time she sent me to bed and told me she would come and get me after a while, so it was kind of like corner time but banished to bed without phone or anything like that. However, she for some reason LOVES the idea of early bedtime as a punishment, probably because I am such a natural night owl. It is one of the few things that every time she hears about it (usually me reading something), she laughs out loud and says that she is going to do that sometime.<br /><br />-ZM<br />Bad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-14678348663792907652022-05-30T05:10:38.558-07:002022-05-30T05:10:38.558-07:00My saga continues, still feeling sorry for myself....My saga continues, still feeling sorry for myself. I asked for and received another paddling over her knee then last night she put me over the ottoman and gave me a very sore bottom then time in the corner to think about it when I told her I was still depressed she sent me to bed early. My issue is that the punishment is not when I exhibit the bad behavior but when I get impatient and ask for it. It hurts and I fear it and know I need it but I think it would be more effective if it was more immediate and not prompted by meWardnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-44215032532401331182022-05-29T08:28:18.911-07:002022-05-29T08:28:18.911-07:00Thanks, TG!Thanks, TG!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-20533972692710399562022-05-29T08:27:42.533-07:002022-05-29T08:27:42.533-07:00Thanks, CK! 400 does seem like an accomplishment ...Thanks, CK! 400 does seem like an accomplishment of sorts.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-42279219193307749902022-05-28T21:35:44.602-07:002022-05-28T21:35:44.602-07:00By the way, Dan, congratulation on 400 Disciplined...By the way, Dan, congratulation on 400 Disciplined Husbands posts! If your wife feels it's appropriate, I wish you 400 painful spanks!<br />CrimsonKingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-69135186561975672852022-05-28T04:30:02.656-07:002022-05-28T04:30:02.656-07:00Dosn"t sound like the perfect place for whate...Dosn"t sound like the perfect place for whatever 'reveal' she had in store for you Dan ! Good luck!Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-31418781899763297472022-05-28T02:43:59.494-07:002022-05-28T02:43:59.494-07:00That’s a reasonable request above. I published th...That’s a reasonable request above. I published the comment early in this thread that starts : “my story is a little different”. I don’t have a Google account and don’t intend to get one but I’m real, have been practicing this lifestyle for twenty years , only discovered this site recently, have commented a few tires in recent weeks and may well comment again in the future. I’ll sign future comments. TGAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-8407460050714131062022-05-27T07:14:32.658-07:002022-05-27T07:14:32.658-07:00Hi Crimson,
I do still have the letter, albeit not...Hi Crimson,<br />I do still have the letter, albeit not in printed form. I have it as a document on my computer and threw the printed one away long ago. I will have to go back and read it, since it will be interesting to see how my perspective has changed, if at all, since I have now experienced this lifestyle. Also, it will be interesting to see how the reality has matched the expectation.<br /><br />As far as not talking when anything can actually happen, it is pretty natural for me, since I always want this lifestyle at every time EXCEPT when punishment is imminent, at which point I do everything to try to delay or avoid punishment.<br /><br />-ZM Bad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-78182357474017846392022-05-27T06:22:25.991-07:002022-05-27T06:22:25.991-07:00I agree about it feeling embarrassing even though ...I agree about it feeling embarrassing even though others can't see it. Two instances come to mind. The first was soon after we'd started DD. She made me come home over lunch for a session with a new strap. After I went back to work, I was acutely self-conscious about sitting there on a very sore bottom. Similarly, a couple of years ago, she gave me a "preventative" spanking before some social event. Once again, I felt very self-conscious and, yeah, kind of embarrassed through the whole thing.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-73188269265326965332022-05-27T06:05:08.714-07:002022-05-27T06:05:08.714-07:00It is a pretty interesting feeling when you can fe...It is a pretty interesting feeling when you can feel your bottom still hurting from a spanking and you are in the presence of others. It feels embarrassing somehow, even though they are of course oblivious to the state of your bottom. Since they don't know, I guess it is not exactly embarrassment, but it still feels something like embarrassment. <br /><br />I can't remember any specific comments my wife has made, though I know she has made some over the years. I guess none have really stuck in my mind. However, one thing that is the pattern pretty much every time: she spanks me, she stops because of the amount of visible damage, right after she doesn't want to see the damage, later she wants to inspect her handiwork, and almost always she is disappointed that all the damage is already gone! <br /><br />-ZMBad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-62731023418359402942022-05-27T03:13:01.801-07:002022-05-27T03:13:01.801-07:00Just to get us back on track , I'll mention a ...Just to get us back on track , I'll mention a comment my wife made after giving me a lunch time spanking which still sticks in my mind for some reason.<br />I had my back to her , getting dressed to go back to work after one of our lunch time report card sessions and obviously had a blazing red bottom on display.<br />"I wonder what the ladies in your office would say if they knew I just gave you a spanking and your butt was nice and red?"<br />She was obviously quite proud of her handiwork and I did feel myself blush when I sat carefully at my desk in the presence of my female assistant.<br />Back late from lunch with a red face and wincing when I sat may have got her wondering?<br />Anybody else have some post spanking comments from a proud wife?Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-62643286325760752352022-05-27T01:57:03.042-07:002022-05-27T01:57:03.042-07:00Hi Glenmore,
"Hopefully mine were in the pret...Hi Glenmore,<br />"Hopefully mine were in the pretty good category!" - yes, they certainly were. I didn't mean any offense by calling them only "pretty good." I guess I automatically take off a little credit just by there not being a name attached. When you know it is a regular poster, then every comment fits into a framework of what they have written before. When there is no name, I read the comment with a certain skepticism since there is always a good chance it is just some poser typing out his fantasies with one hand while playing with himself with the other.<br /><br />-ZMBad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-83298376831284190282022-05-26T16:29:09.734-07:002022-05-26T16:29:09.734-07:00MW, to be clear, not logging in but adding initial...MW, to be clear, not logging in but adding initials or a name at the end is totally fine. It's the fully anonymous comments with no name, initials or login that are kind of a pain and that do seem to be correlated with posting fantasies and similarly unhelpful content. <br /><br />For what it's worth, every once in a while I have seen that someone posted using an account that I suspected they didn't want to use. In those cases, I've quickly deleted the comment. On at least one occasion, I accidentally posted on someone else's blog using my "in real life" account. Sent me into a panic then. It might not today.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-87156831112849865732022-05-26T15:55:22.076-07:002022-05-26T15:55:22.076-07:00I realize I should post using a consistent Google ...I realize I should post using a consistent Google login because it makes the community better. I just get nervous that I'll accidentally do it with a much more identifying account. It's happened before. That's why I stick to incognito and use the same initials. MWnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-68684595624027837712022-05-26T13:46:40.398-07:002022-05-26T13:46:40.398-07:00No problem, Glen. Also, regarding the tables set ...No problem, Glen. Also, regarding the tables set up during our conversation, the source of the problem was we were in a booth. The benches were high-backed, but it was doing nothing to block the sound from the adjoining boothDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-18784046922116388362022-05-26T11:17:00.514-07:002022-05-26T11:17:00.514-07:00Hopefully mine were in the pretty good category!Hopefully mine were in the pretty good category!Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-27647249173498178692022-05-26T11:15:38.566-07:002022-05-26T11:15:38.566-07:00Sorry Dan but a couple of those anonymous comment...Sorry Dan but a couple of those anonymous comments were mine.Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-89789272404610280702022-05-26T10:45:56.789-07:002022-05-26T10:45:56.789-07:00Sorry Dan , this comment is mine. Sometimes I am n...Sorry Dan , this comment is mine. Sometimes I am not signed into google when I comment....my fault!Glenmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10011257092494429520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-27997936929947310642022-05-26T08:53:04.721-07:002022-05-26T08:53:04.721-07:00"And you can see just from looking that the t..."And you can see just from looking that the totally anonymous comments range from pretty good to downright ridiculous." Yep. <br /><br />I really, really wish that the people posting the fantasy drivel would just go write their own fucking blog. Oh, wait. The primary offender for the last few months already has his own blog! One in which he claims to be a member of a church and a community where DD is widely practiced. Please. Go. The. Fuck. Away.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-16162936764084709092022-05-26T08:39:08.438-07:002022-05-26T08:39:08.438-07:00Hi Dan,
"We seem to be getting more anonymous...Hi Dan,<br />"We seem to be getting more anonymous commenters than usual, without any name used. Even if posting anonymously, please add a name to your comment so we all can keep track of who we are responding to." - Agree fully. And you can see just from looking that the totally anonymous comments range from pretty good to downright ridiculous.<br /><br />It is all up to you, but since you kindly asked people to at least add names on their comments and yet they (or more likely one "he") seem to not be doing so, I would just start deleting anything that has no identifiers. It is your yard, so your rules should apply.<br /><br />In a perfect world, we would not need anonymous comments at all and everyone would create a google ID to log in with, but I guess I understand why some might be reluctant to do that because of privacy concerns. But at the very least, it would be good if people would pick one name and only post under that one name.<br /><br />-ZM<br /><br />-ZMBad_boy_G_punished_by_Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062930835790875000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-71185391483800928852022-05-26T03:02:08.442-07:002022-05-26T03:02:08.442-07:00Again, Bad_boy, I think we're in a similar spo...Again, Bad_boy, I think we're in a similar spot-<br /><br />"reading a document that I had written for my former wife trying to convince her to try this."<br /><br />I did the same thing, editing together the 'best of' Disciplined Hubbies and some FLR sites with my own thoughts and feelings. Do you still have your letter? I have mine.<br /><br />"Restaurants remove the possibility of anything happening right then. It is quite a bit easier to talk about something that is a little more hypothetical."<br /><br />Ha! Same here - I read my letter to my wife during a long road trip - while she was driving!<br />CrimsonKingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com