tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post1952814855401804781..comments2024-03-27T19:18:47.979-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Forum -- Vol. 111 -- Happy Halloween & Poll on ImplementsDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-12710778422493794692015-11-08T06:36:49.502-08:002015-11-08T06:36:49.502-08:00My wife has a couple of rubber implements she got ...My wife has a couple of rubber implements she got form the DWC. One is a thick rubber implement called The "Dominator". It is too heavy-duty for me. It's simply beyond my range. But she occasionally uses it on others. The other one is called the Ferule. It's more than enough bruise me up good.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-68991197729680044742015-11-07T20:06:48.626-08:002015-11-07T20:06:48.626-08:00I'm a spanked husband. Though we did this late...I'm a spanked husband. Though we did this later in our marriage I tended to ignore and sometimes defy my wife, so we discussed it and I agreed to be disciplined rather than continue to cause issues. I get the a hairbrush or a paddle, which I had made. Both leave me with a sore bum. The paddle by far leaves a lasting sting for a few days and it is used for correction of serious violations. When my wife uses the paddle a long lecturer or a verbal humiliation follows, which I must listen to or provide acceptable answers for when certain questions are asked. To object or resist is unwise since I agreed to this is not a good idea. This works for us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-65857182763926489262015-11-05T19:07:22.834-08:002015-11-05T19:07:22.834-08:00Thanks, Jeff. I agree. It is hard to imagine a ha...Thanks, Jeff. I agree. It is hard to imagine a hand spanking being much of a deterrent or punishment to any but the softest of bottoms.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-55797697727714075222015-11-05T18:59:38.233-08:002015-11-05T18:59:38.233-08:00Hi Peter. The smell of one of them I bought on-li...Hi Peter. The smell of one of them I bought on-line was so bad, I threw it away after a couple of days. The ones I identified above have no similar stinkiness. Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-90750451946836968072015-11-05T18:00:10.518-08:002015-11-05T18:00:10.518-08:00I've read a few accounts where guys were hand ...I've read a few accounts where guys were hand spanked after being worn out with some implement and I can see that having some physical as well as a greater psychological effect particularly if they were already crying, but otherwise it would take a strong, determined woman for it to be much of a physical ordeal.<br /><br />JeffAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-38619614947070917542015-11-05T13:45:04.982-08:002015-11-05T13:45:04.982-08:00Dan
Anna is very fond of the rubber slapper she di...Dan<br />Anna is very fond of the rubber slapper she discovered on line. 50 hard fast ones let me tell you can bring me to the edge. That is usually when i am sent to corner for 10 minutes and then back for 50 more. I hate the smell of the rubber but she loves the sound.<br />PeterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-83678038127624847712015-11-05T05:42:27.265-08:002015-11-05T05:42:27.265-08:00Not the least bit boring. Quite the opposite. It&...Not the least bit boring. Quite the opposite. It's a great story and great that things have worked out so well for you both. Thanks again for contributing to the discussion!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-57340648642376058132015-11-04T19:02:19.274-08:002015-11-04T19:02:19.274-08:00Hopefully this won't be a long story but when ...Hopefully this won't be a long story but when Deb and I got together I used to have some bad depression days. This caused us both a lot of grief. One particular bad day she was upset. I wasn't being helpful. She said I was acting like a child. She actually said " I should just take you over my knee and give you a good paddling "! Well that didn't sound like fun. I thought about it all nite and next apologized and said I was afraid of losing her and would rather have the spanking. She smiled and said she wasn't leaving but believed the spanking would help. She said to go to our room and think about a while and she'd be in later to " discuss " it with me. A couple hours passed and she walked in. She took the bench from the vanity and moved to the middle of the room and was seated. She said things were going to change immediately. In a calm but firm tone she called me to her. She looked up and said " do you know why you're getting a spanking ? Do you deserve it "? I nodded yes. She said to get over her knee. As I layed across her lap the first time I felt nerveous , scared and a little excited. She wasn't mean or angry but started to spank me with her hand. Didn't hurt much. A few minutes later she pulled my pants done and started again. This hurt a little more but nothing serious. After about 10 minutes she stopped and said to stand up. I thought she was done. She said her hand was hurting and grabbed her brush fro the dresser. She took me over her knee again and started using the brush. Now she really had my attention ! I was squirming and jumping all over begging her to stop. Still in a calm voice she said she had to make this something I wouldn't forget and continued steadily for about 10 minutes. She finally stopped and said it was over. She asked " did you learn anything "? I caught my breath and said yes ma'am. She gave me 2 more hard swats and let me stand up. My bottom was stinging and was extremely hot ! She put the brush down , smiled and gave me a hug. She said all was forgiven and forgotten. For the first time ever , all the remorse and guilt I felt was gone and the slate wiped clean. Physically I was hurting but emotionally felt great ! She said she would do this any time she felt needed. We've said many times if other couples used this method for fixing problems there may be fewer divorces ? Since that nite she's corrected matters many times. We're totally happy and found that spanking has brought us incredibly close together.... I hope this wasn't too boring. Thanks for the warm welcome. Jrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09387985161853012515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-70621847208480749792015-11-04T18:03:16.187-08:002015-11-04T18:03:16.187-08:00I agree about rubber hurting longer without numbin...I agree about rubber hurting longer without numbing. I have no idea why, but it really does work that way. Regarding wrapping, we had that problem with a big leather prison strap and finally stopped using it because it bit too much into the side of my leg.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-69360528493261088912015-11-04T18:00:45.885-08:002015-11-04T18:00:45.885-08:00HI Holly. I totally agree. I am a leather guy in ...HI Holly. I totally agree. I am a leather guy in my daily life. Leather bomber jackets, computer bags, office chairs, etc. So, I totally get preferring the sound, feel, etc. And, I do think the rubber strap should be reserved for very severe lessons. My wife does not tend to modulate her spankings, though. They are all about as hard as she can give, so she gravitates to whatever is the hardest. Have fun trying the rubber. Would love to hear how it goesDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-53200554262113813642015-11-04T12:58:15.632-08:002015-11-04T12:58:15.632-08:00Dan,
If personal preferences are ignored, your wif...Dan,<br />If personal preferences are ignored, your wife's policy makes perfect sense in using the tool that gets the job done fastest and easiest. But I love leather straps, the sound they make, the way they feel in my hands and especially the look on his face when I produce it. I am going to try a rubber strap but I doubt it will ever replace leather in my home.<br />Holly. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-32096718076837114932015-11-04T06:44:25.268-08:002015-11-04T06:44:25.268-08:00Hey all. I believe with us just about any or our i...Hey all. I believe with us just about any or our implements can be very unpleasant depending on intent, force, and most of all......pace. Fast is just horrible. However, for me, I think the thing I associate most with real punishment (since we do play at times) is being strapped into this rack we have and getting it with an Adam&Gillian's "White Lightnin' Switch". The thing is like a cross between a switch and a cane, hurts like fire, and leave cane-like welts.But since it's not a true cane, it doesn't hit with the full force of a long cane, but that just means I can get a lot more strokes with it. (Recently I got 150 strokes in one session. My but was so sore and felt like hot, ribbed plastic!)<br /><br />However, our usual paddle can be very bad if Rosa is upset. She likes the paddle too, and having me over her lap for her lectures. What I hate when she's upset is her technique of repeatedly punishing one cheek until I'm ready to jump through the wall before doing the same to the other. OH, I HATE THAT! And she knows it, and so she does it emphatically whenever she's making a point. In fact, I can tell by whether she alternates slowly or spanks in succession just how miffed or playful she is.<br /><br />Now we also have a rubber slapper. It is pretty nasty too, but it doesn't work well in the OTK position because my butt is small (cute though LOL). In that position it just wraps every time. However, it is devastating if I am on all fours and the spanker is straddling me and striking downward. Every swat bites right into the undercurve. The other thing is the slapper continues to hurt longer than the paddle....which tends to numb me after a while.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-71118814520075896882015-11-04T04:52:10.784-08:002015-11-04T04:52:10.784-08:00Merry
That is a good way of looking at all of disc...Merry<br />That is a good way of looking at all of discipline. i have a love/hate relationship with spanking no matter what ins instrument is used. i love that She cares enough, i love the eroticness, I hate that i have not pleases my Wife, and i hate the pain. BUT i view it all a treat. Maybe i will get there with the figging.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-73224430422091081212015-11-03T13:07:48.805-08:002015-11-03T13:07:48.805-08:00I feel it's all in the presentation. Even the ...I feel it's all in the presentation. Even the most pleasant things can become miserable if you treat it that way. <br /><br />Think:<br />You're being punished, so I'm going to shove this hot root in your ass and paddle you.<br /><br />VS.<br /><br />This might burn a little, but it will feel good, and I'm going to paddle you while you have this in your bottom.<br /><br />It's not for everyone, but Shilo considers it a treat.Merry Contraryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605968415958113942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-24136812095066688302015-11-03T07:01:25.291-08:002015-11-03T07:01:25.291-08:00Dan
I DO know what you mean. Of course I don't...Dan<br />I DO know what you mean. Of course I don't know her but I am sure she must love you very much and like so many wives we fear that I would take it too far. Just make sure when she does it better than before you let her know how much you appreciate it. When Peter does that after a session I have told him those words of praise are are the same as a dozen white roses from him showing up<br />at the door for no apparent reason. I know it takes time. Your friend<br />annaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-84032871418516877332015-11-02T21:53:27.316-08:002015-11-02T21:53:27.316-08:00Among my wife's "other implements" a...Among my wife's "other implements" are a rattan cane (probably from SE Asia) she found in her grandmother's attic (after the old lady died), a riding crop she bought on her own, a thick washerwoman's paddle she found on a fleamarket, and a thick leather strap (a bridle, actually) that she bought from an old lady in Southern Italy. And then, of course, there are the maple switches I have to cut and bring her every other week (and which are then "pickled" in a mix of water and vinegar) -at least during the months when the weather doesn't allow an open-air flogging in the woods with a switch she cuts on the spot!<br /><br />L.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-15694631202059339242015-11-02T20:59:44.334-08:002015-11-02T20:59:44.334-08:00Lashing is what it does, but it all depends on the...Lashing is what it does, but it all depends on the kind of martinet being used. Old-fashioned martinets (like the one she has) should have six or eight strips of solid leather (about 1/4 inch thick and ca. 16 inch long). Ours (hers, actually) was bought in a village dry-goods store in Auvergne (France) - and I still remember how embarrassed I was when my wife explained to the jolly woman who ran the store how - and on whose backside! - she planned to use it! (she did, of course, later that day - and plenty of times later!) <br /><br />A hundred lashes with that martinet will leave a lasting impression. Any more might (literally) tear the skin off one's derrière! <br /><br />Apart from using it at home, my wife often packs it in her suitcase when we are traveling - and will, "as needed", use it in hotel rooms because it is (relatively) less noisy than a hairbrush...<br /><br />L. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-7469731722037187882015-11-02T18:37:49.526-08:002015-11-02T18:37:49.526-08:00Hi Holly. I totally get that, and I think my wife...Hi Holly. I totally get that, and I think my wife feels the same way. While she uses several implements, from the amount of time she spends with each, I think she gravitates to the strap and still likes the feel of the leather ones. But, she has observed how much worse the rubber ones are than her favorite leather. I personally agree they should be reserved for teaching a very serious lesson. Unfortunately, she doesn't quite see it that way.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-55496229421023663622015-11-02T18:34:37.070-08:002015-11-02T18:34:37.070-08:00I have read a lot about figging but never tried it...I have read a lot about figging but never tried it.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-78431513727177409332015-11-02T18:33:35.270-08:002015-11-02T18:33:35.270-08:00Exactly -- pure pain, no numbing. My only warning...Exactly -- pure pain, no numbing. My only warning to people on cane-iac is they have one strap that is made from the same material as a belted radial tire, and they warn that it smells like one. I bought it, and the smell was truly horrible Put it in my closet and within hours everything smelled like a tire shop.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77230776851920609952015-11-02T18:30:39.171-08:002015-11-02T18:30:39.171-08:00Fred, I cant' argue with the spoiled part. In...Fred, I cant' argue with the spoiled part. In terms of being influenced by sex, given the freedom to sleep around as compared to prior generations, I'm guessing they are less prone to jump into marriage just to get sex than was the case with prior generations.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-44549025622380937512015-11-02T18:27:37.993-08:002015-11-02T18:27:37.993-08:00Hi Anna. I will definitely pass along the offer to...Hi Anna. I will definitely pass along the offer to her. So far, I haven't been able to get her to take that step, but I do think it would be good for her (and probably lots of other disciplinary wives) to talk to and support each other. Regarding the substance of my comment, she knows it. We've talked about it a lot. She knows that I really do better the tougher she is. It's just sometimes hard translating desires and best intentions into consistent action. Know what I mean?Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-22923350068081660782015-11-02T18:24:15.410-08:002015-11-02T18:24:15.410-08:00Unless I was in one of those moods where I feel li...Unless I was in one of those moods where I feel like I really need to do a severe penance such that I really want the worst she can do, the bath brush. I agree it is an awful instrument, but the rubber straps are worse.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-925161947666825762015-11-02T16:14:01.606-08:002015-11-02T16:14:01.606-08:00Oh, but figging is FUN! it can also be eroticOh, but figging is FUN! it can also be eroticMerry Contraryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605968415958113942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-17792265511120694692015-11-02T10:17:11.574-08:002015-11-02T10:17:11.574-08:00Dan
If you have not before show her this entryNOW....Dan<br />If you have not before show her this entryNOW. It says it all.If you feel speaking to another wife give her my email.<br />annaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com