tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post952368184583512535..comments2024-03-28T21:45:05.911-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Forum -- Vol. 7 -- Poll: Where do Your Spankings HappenDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-82760311807964492762015-12-09T15:21:48.088-08:002015-12-09T15:21:48.088-08:00@Dan: I'm sure you've considered insulatio...@Dan: I'm sure you've considered insulation or other sound proofing material for your basement room due to the children. Just consider that you will also need to check the ventilation if you do a project like that. A split HVAC system would be a great choice for that room if it fits your budget. Tomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-56856672367433065682015-10-10T08:58:16.513-07:002015-10-10T08:58:16.513-07:00Hi Hairbrushedhubby. Thanks for sharing.Hi Hairbrushedhubby. Thanks for sharing.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-43701540081862557442015-10-09T12:44:51.352-07:002015-10-09T12:44:51.352-07:00This is so interesting. I think our bedroom is eve...This is so interesting. I think our bedroom is even more powerful than other places because it sends the message that I'm NOT going to another level, place, or dimension. I'm going to get it in the here and now because getting spanked is not 'separate' but intrinsic to us as a couple. I like a bit of "punishment ritual" but too much makes it seem 'apart' from real life and I think Rosa and I see it as part of our real life. Interesting how we can see things so differently!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-37149935544460155272015-10-09T07:31:37.149-07:002015-10-09T07:31:37.149-07:00All spankings take place in the bedroom, have alwa...All spankings take place in the bedroom, have always been that way when the children were at home as my wife could put our various hairbrushes away in the chest of drawers at the side of the bed, and now they have all left home, (children that is, not the hairbrushes), we see no reason to change<br /><br />Hairbrushedhubby..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77809908568211190522015-10-08T18:41:45.700-07:002015-10-08T18:41:45.700-07:00Sounds like a great space. Thanks, Dave!Sounds like a great space. Thanks, Dave!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-23725952831409961862015-10-08T18:41:01.594-07:002015-10-08T18:41:01.594-07:00Hi L. Thanks for contributingHi L. Thanks for contributingDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-58119033774546289822015-10-08T18:40:14.818-07:002015-10-08T18:40:14.818-07:00The car does seem like a really likely place, just...The car does seem like a really likely place, just because it is so readily available and failry sound proofDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-55099556225012855792015-10-08T18:39:07.284-07:002015-10-08T18:39:07.284-07:00Hi Al. Have an empty office available sounds grea...Hi Al. Have an empty office available sounds great.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64196071056422293842015-10-08T18:37:13.803-07:002015-10-08T18:37:13.803-07:00Hi Holly. Thanks for sharing. I envy you having ...Hi Holly. Thanks for sharing. I envy you having a tools shed apart from the house. That seems so quintessentially disciplinaryDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-43286585334091731782015-10-08T18:35:50.719-07:002015-10-08T18:35:50.719-07:00Thanks, Anonymous!Thanks, Anonymous!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-71362783338185799832015-10-08T18:12:22.811-07:002015-10-08T18:12:22.811-07:00I have been spanked a number of times while "...I have been spanked a number of times while "on the road", but only once in the backseat of our car. Most other times (e.g. when driving home after a party where she felt I had "misbehaved") she chose to stop at a roadside spot where the spanking could be administered. This also happened a couple of times in broad daylight when, to punish me for my 'reckless driving', I was ordered to pull in at a "convenient" roadside area (including one with picnic tables) and to pulll down my pants to receive what she called "a well-deserved punishement" - once with her hairbrush, and once with a sturdy switch she cut right on the spot...<br /><br />L.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-30254070128031144532015-10-08T17:34:20.959-07:002015-10-08T17:34:20.959-07:00I suspect we were overheard in that fitting room -...I suspect we were overheard in that fitting room - if only by whoever was in one of the adjacent booths... As for the airport, because this was a late night flight, there was only one middle-aged German woman in the "facility"- and I know she was aware of what had been going on by the way she looked at us when we emerged from the cabin where my derrière had just been soundly paddled with the hairbrush !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64757946070292766012015-10-08T03:54:12.661-07:002015-10-08T03:54:12.661-07:00Hi Carl, Well I remember that his mother commente...Hi Carl, Well I remember that his mother commented that he was long over due and she now felt confident that her son was going to be a respectful and well behaved individual. JanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-80783224170487201762015-10-07T23:30:57.557-07:002015-10-07T23:30:57.557-07:00We're lucky enough to be able to set a room as...We're lucky enough to be able to set a room aside for punishment. Years ago, when the last of our children moved away we dedicated one of the bedrooms. It's not used for anything else so unless one of them makes a rare visit home, the trestle is permanently set up and ready to go. We don't have a fancy name for it but know it as Upstairs but because friends often stay with us, its the only room in the house that's kept behind a closed door.<br />We've taken most of the bedroom furniture away so it's very functional and not a place for discussion. That's happens elsewhere and usually over dinner with the visit Upstairs after we have cleared away. That way, if I'm feeling sorry for myself, I can put myself to bed afterwards.<br />Noise isn't a problem because the nearest neighbours know of our disciplinary arrangement and those on the other side are too far away.<br />It's ideal for us because we keep the discipline contained and not spilling over into the rest of our lives.<br /><br />DaveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-47127346703200784052015-10-07T10:30:53.350-07:002015-10-07T10:30:53.350-07:00Now this has got me thinking about it and I think ...Now this has got me thinking about it and I think its that mixture of spontaneity and ( small) danger of discovery that makes them so memorable. Also for me at least they are rare.<br />Alan Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-48582026303403324242015-10-07T06:49:52.269-07:002015-10-07T06:49:52.269-07:00Jan, Thanks for the response, especially about you...Jan, Thanks for the response, especially about you M-I-L and S-I-L. Do you remember what they said after you spanked your husband? Also, what about any neighbors?<br /><br />CarlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-8098822152402976012015-10-07T04:40:10.782-07:002015-10-07T04:40:10.782-07:00Hi Jan here. I don't go out of my way to span...Hi Jan here. I don't go out of my way to spank my husband so he will get caught. I spank him when he need its and deserves it. I once gave him a good sound spanking in front of his mother and sister. I simply took by his ear lead him to a chair put him otk I then forced his pants and underwear down and spanked his bare bottom like you would any naughty little boy. When his bottom was well blistered I marched him off to his corner. His mother was totally amazed at the way he acted and how his attitude changed as the results of his spanking and has introduced his sister to similar discipline when needed. I also employ certain methods such as petticoat punishment when necessary. If you want I write about that another time. JanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-62974320801320869562015-10-06T22:38:38.858-07:002015-10-06T22:38:38.858-07:00I've received maybe 15 or so spankings in the ...I've received maybe 15 or so spankings in the car in the dozen years that we've been in the DD lifestyle - mostly in the back seat of her vehicle. However, the very first one that I received was in my car - a sports sedan with bucket seats. We were driving down the Interstate late at night, returning from a visit in a town a couple of hours down the highway, when Susan became irritated with the self righteous and condescending remarks I was making about a couple that we had me while visiting our friends. As we approached a dark country road exit, she told me to take the exit. I could tell by her tone of voice that I had better follow her directions, so I took the exit, and she had me park in back of an old, closed service station. Then I was instructed to reach back between the bucket seats to pick up an item that she had just dropped on the back floor board - whereupon she pulled my pants down and administered a full fledged hair brush paddling, easily a hundred whacks. In the short term, my bottom was very sore as I drove the rest of the way home, and it proved to be a very memorable spanking in the long term. --alAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-8101682743673333752015-10-06T18:20:43.838-07:002015-10-06T18:20:43.838-07:00Please. Talk a little about your neighbors see you...Please. Talk a little about your neighbors see you discipline your husband.<br /><br />I already had neighbors with a disciplinarian mother. She discipline her children soon after they do something wrong. She used belt or a stick from a tree called goiabeira (item has already been widely used in Brazil).<br />She did not care if other people were present believe this was part of the discipline strategy.<br /><br />Sometimes we hear the slaps them as a discipline her husband. She sends the children to play outside. The windows always open and we could hear the sound of the slaps applied to the husband. The sound was a belt being used in severe formAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-26443957846640533422015-10-06T12:54:43.323-07:002015-10-06T12:54:43.323-07:00al's note above about being spanked in the car...al's note above about being spanked in the car ( back seat?) makes me wonder how common that is.One of the first disciplinary spanking I got was in the back seat on a back road in a national forest. It's also happened in a local park and in a garage and in a mall parking lot. Every one of them were spontaneous spankings with a car chosen because it was available. Altogether I have probably been spanked in a car only about a half dozen times but they have all been memorable. The emotion I remember most of all was embarrassment and also fear that someone would see it. <br />Alan Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-73832247761800846452015-10-06T12:13:52.400-07:002015-10-06T12:13:52.400-07:00Just a side note - when exiting the family rest ro...Just a side note - when exiting the family rest room at the mall - where I had received a quick 25 or so with the hairbrush, two ladies were standing just a few feet down the hall way, looking our way with mischievous smiles. And to make matters worse, my wife had left the restroom with the hairbrush still in her hand as she wanted to make sure that if anyone had overheard - they they would know who was doing the spanking. Actually, though, it was early on a weekday morning and the restroom was way down a long hall way (as mall restrooms sometimes are) so I had hoped no one would be around - unfortunately that was not the case. I am sure those ladies knew that I got spanked - thankfully I did not know them. On a different note - I will be traveling on business for a couple of weeks and will be off line for the duration. -- alAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-40580389706695517482015-10-06T12:02:26.566-07:002015-10-06T12:02:26.566-07:00Like KD posted - my spankings are normally given i...Like KD posted - my spankings are normally given in the bedroom but I have been spanked in every room of the house. The privacy of the bedroom was the obvious choice when we had teenagers at home, and we still had to be cognizant of noise - got a lot of "silent switchings" back then (often with the DWC mini-cane). But at the times we knew we were safe for a while, my wife made it a point to break in every room of the house over time. Now that the kids are gone, we still use the bedroom the majority of the time, but I also get spanked regularly in the kitchen and den as well. Also, when the kids were at home, we had access to a private office only a few minutes away that was available after business hours and on weekends - that office became the woodshed. I received many paddlings there bent over the office desk or across her lap on the large leather sofa - she still has a hairbrush stashed in a closet there just in case she needs to take me there when the kids are home. I've also been spanked in motel rooms, family restroom at the mall, in the storage shed of her Mom's house, her sister's house, and in the car. --alAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-1492234259612967192015-10-06T11:47:24.180-07:002015-10-06T11:47:24.180-07:00Almost always in our bedroom. That's where I s...Almost always in our bedroom. That's where I started and have seen no reason to change. But I begin discipline ( stripping him and some scolding) anywhere I happen to be in the house.I make sure he folds his clothes and leaves them in wherever I begin so he has to return to get dressed again after its over. In that sense he has been punished in every room in the house plus the tool shed out back and the basement. Spanking him on the same bed we make love has made him more submissive in lovemaking which I like<br />HollyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-59605507839283118502015-10-06T09:33:12.209-07:002015-10-06T09:33:12.209-07:00All my spankings are given in the bedroom. Both th...All my spankings are given in the bedroom. Both the wooden paddle and the wide leather belt are in the closet and readily available. Most times it is over her knees in the overstuffed chair, but there have been times where I am laying flat on the bed. If corner time is to follow it is the same corner of the bedroom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-78473141996490437842015-10-06T08:31:58.175-07:002015-10-06T08:31:58.175-07:00WOW! - Jan. Can you tell us more about the times ...WOW! - Jan. Can you tell us more about the times that neighbors have caught your husband over your knees - were they women, men (perhaps other spanked husbands), good friends, relatives, or what? Also, did they stay and watch or beat a hasty retreat? Is it common knowledge in that neighborhood that Robin is a spanked husband?<br /><br />Carl HAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com