tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post8074594195705524792..comments2024-03-28T11:43:32.966-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: The Forum -- Vol. 162 -- Taken AsideDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-84453477548068660582016-07-25T12:30:29.970-07:002016-07-25T12:30:29.970-07:00Hot topic with lots of responses...Hot topic with lots of responses...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-79183568318477280192016-07-24T17:20:08.971-07:002016-07-24T17:20:08.971-07:00After several warnings while visiting my wife'...After several warnings while visiting my wife's sister, my wife asked that we be excused. My wife escorted me to a bedroom grasping my ear all the way. Afte a long scolding she pulled my pants down and gave me a really hard spanking with the brush she carries . When we returned her sister said " very interesting" I was hard for me to face my sister in law for white a while but now she knows and I have gotten used to the idea of her knowing but not so interested in getting it again around her.bart stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16351834644036574996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-4962289287000318112016-07-12T12:05:11.537-07:002016-07-12T12:05:11.537-07:00I spank my husband at homelands elsewhere. Last w...I spank my husband at homelands elsewhere. Last week we were at a girlfriends home. He acted like a jerk. I took him into her bathroom, found a hairbrush, lowered his pant and gave him a good bare spanking. When we came back to the living room I apologized. She said that's ok, I could hear it and it was hot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-59479419623722953502016-06-25T17:22:31.076-07:002016-06-25T17:22:31.076-07:00Hmmm Where have I heard the term Medicine Woman be...Hmmm Where have I heard the term Medicine Woman before? Cannot recall. But I know I saw it somewhere.Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-43982626467427031652016-06-24T14:45:53.135-07:002016-06-24T14:45:53.135-07:00lOVE IT WHEN FEMALE CALLS THE SHOTS..................lOVE IT WHEN FEMALE CALLS THE SHOTS.........................Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-22621624811103405842016-06-24T00:45:16.958-07:002016-06-24T00:45:16.958-07:00Fascinating discussion as always. I have never be...Fascinating discussion as always. I have never been 'taken to one side' for a spanking as an adult although I do remember trailing after my head teacher as he marched purposefully towards his office for the inevitable strapping, under the eyes of both fellow pupils and teachers - all of whom knew what we on the agenda! <br /><br />I can sort of relate to the 'fugue' comments above for although I have never gotten to the state that Joe2 describes, I am often told that I need a 'reset' which tends to be delivered efficiently and dispassionately until she has sensed that I have been released from whatever mood or gloom that has enveloped me.<br /><br />It is painful, especially as it is often not linked to a specific offense and she doles it out at these times as a necessary medicine. I will squeal and protest as the strap connects but at some point, usually quite early I can almost feel the 'reset' take place, like a switch in my head. If I could stop her then I would, but she only stops when she stops.<br /><br />These sessions are different from pure punishment which tends to have more emotion - on both sides.<br /><br />I always feel much 'lighter' after as if a cloud has been dispelled. Unfortunately in a very honest moment I told her, an admission I often regret as I take my medicine ... :)<br /><br />TBAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-9831503864970436022016-06-23T19:50:13.552-07:002016-06-23T19:50:13.552-07:00This is Joe2
Thanks for all of your concern, but ...This is Joe2<br /><br />Thanks for all of your concern, but I'm a guy. I go to the doctor when blood is shooting across the tool shed floor. It hasn't happened before and if it starts happening again, I'll have my wife reset me.<br /><br />As a side note, my predecessor went to a doctor to deal with the stress and all he got in order of treatment: first he was taught stress decompression exercises, then he was taught self-hypnosis, lastly he was prescribed drugs. I'll take a "good old old fashion whoopen" over what the doctor offered him.<br /><br />I personally think, that it was a combination of stress, lack of sleep and my brain trying to find a way to cope, without acting like the jerk I wanted to be (complain, whine, and say sarcastic comments about taking a weekend off when I really needed to correct work problems).<br /><br />I will say it was very surreal. For instance, I only "kind of" remember the spanking, but the evidence marks were ALMOST like some of the pictures you see on the web.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-33823691661370239552016-06-23T13:21:10.247-07:002016-06-23T13:21:10.247-07:00Thanks, Anonymous. It's always the quiet ones...Thanks, Anonymous. It's always the quiet ones you have to watch out for.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-92134440350961127982016-06-23T13:18:25.345-07:002016-06-23T13:18:25.345-07:00At the risk of playing amateur psychologist, I agr...At the risk of playing amateur psychologist, I agree with Alan. Sorry Joe2, not trying to tell you what to do, but that does sound like something you might want to look into with a professional.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-59026862915654454542016-06-23T12:47:15.500-07:002016-06-23T12:47:15.500-07:00Wife has never pulled me out she has threatened me...Wife has never pulled me out she has threatened me with it but never did. I think she likes to see me worry about it till we get home . One of her favorite sayings is wait till we get home I am going to beat your ass. She says it out loud every time. I wonder what my friends think does she or don't she do it. She is usually very quiet. If they just knew how she could swing a paddle. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-24940474786229514112016-06-23T12:28:15.857-07:002016-06-23T12:28:15.857-07:00There seems to be some kind of general consensus a...There seems to be some kind of general consensus and at least a little research tha adult spanking can be therapeutic. But remembering my Psyc 101 course (a little) isn't a fugue state pretty serious stuff,serious enough that maybe Joe2 should think about consulting a professional? Just a question<br />Alan Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-80987920921176802992016-06-23T10:46:23.282-07:002016-06-23T10:46:23.282-07:00Joe2: Sounds like maybe you went into what is call...Joe2: Sounds like maybe you went into what is called a "fugue state" due to intense stress:<br /><br />Fugue state: An altered state of consciousness in which a person may move about purposely and even speak, but is not fully aware. A fugue state is usually a type of complex partial seizure. See: Seizure, complex partial. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-29521789331853790362016-06-23T10:03:29.785-07:002016-06-23T10:03:29.785-07:00Wow. That was an incredible story. I am sure there...Wow. That was an incredible story. I am sure there are much deeper implications vis a vis the amount of stress you had to handle and what guidance a professional might have given.<br /><br />But the fact is, the administration of a real spanking; an extended one in that case, resolved your stress and that is awesome!!!Tomy Nashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208893789610692117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-36835692484351205302016-06-23T08:20:54.659-07:002016-06-23T08:20:54.659-07:00joe 2
I totally understand and relate.
peterjoe 2<br /><br />I totally understand and relate.<br /><br />peterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-36255196693666696392016-06-22T23:05:33.857-07:002016-06-22T23:05:33.857-07:00This is Joe2.
If any of you remember, I get spank...This is Joe2.<br /><br />If any of you remember, I get spanked to reset my brain when under a lot of stress. I have only one event that caused my wife to pull me out of an event. I only really only remember the before and after, the middle is rather vague. But my wife has told me of the middle. <br /><br />I had a project that was always threatening to go off the rails. Nothing major, but a continuous series of problems; which was causing a lot of work-hours and increased costs. My wife had a weekend event (Friday evening to Sunday afternoon) that was very important to her, so I could not put in any hours during that weekend.<br /><br />We farmed out the kids and drove to the event (about 1 1/2 hours away). Sometime during the period of getting changed into our dinner wear, I started to get emotionally detached. Not rude or despondent, but stuck in neutral. As the evening wore on, I became more detached. For instance, I usually take about a minute to order from a menu, but that evening, I just looked at the words on the paper. I listened to the conversations, but offered no real replies. By the time coffee was offered my wife asked me to come out into the reception area. Once there, she asked me a few questions, and looked into my eyes and listened to my responses. She told me my answers were barely adequate and my eyes were completely blank. She went back to the dining room offered our apologies and took me home.<br /><br />She said I was almost robotic, when she told me to prepare for a spanking. She started with our primary implement and I had no response. For a few strikes she increased the power- still no response. She finally took out the fiberglass rod and struck me very harshly. After about six strikes I started reacting to the pain, so she moved back to our primary tool. In less than two dozen strikes I was into subspace. She cuddled with me for a few minutes and I went fast asleep.<br /><br />The next morning, I was mentally normal. There was still some stress, but very manageable. We went back to the event and had a very good time. But I did have some wicked marks and deep bruises on my bottom. My wife told me that I really scared her, because she had never seen me in such a state.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-66182329545135659612016-06-22T14:59:54.259-07:002016-06-22T14:59:54.259-07:00Hi Anna. Glad you liked it!Hi Anna. Glad you liked it!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-62845854199077456092016-06-22T14:51:39.494-07:002016-06-22T14:51:39.494-07:00Dan
I do love the expression "Humbling functi...Dan<br />I do love the expression "Humbling function". I am sure it will work its way into any discipline i give to Peter.<br />AnnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-72704420094803514322016-06-22T12:23:20.380-07:002016-06-22T12:23:20.380-07:00Great way to put it. Thanks, Marisa.Great way to put it. Thanks, Marisa.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-63431536660220090142016-06-22T12:18:02.233-07:002016-06-22T12:18:02.233-07:00Yes. That "humbling function" allows you...Yes. That "humbling function" allows you to let go of that ego, accept authority and become the ( mostly) wonderful, charming and loving men you really are.It frees you to be yourself and that is what we are after.That is also why spanking without the mental and emotional parts of it doesn't really work. The message never gets through because you are not prepared to hear it before you have been humbled.( parenthetically I think a man who needs to have his pants taken down by his wife in order to behave should be plenty embarassed) <br />Marisa Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-76614852316801414742016-06-22T11:19:07.191-07:002016-06-22T11:19:07.191-07:00Thanks, Marisa. That is similar to why my wife gi...Thanks, Marisa. That is similar to why my wife gives me chores and tasks to do, in addition to spanking for discipline. She knows I hate being bossed around, so the chores have a humbling function.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-26131863148075625802016-06-22T10:42:08.670-07:002016-06-22T10:42:08.670-07:00Hello Carl,
He wanted to slip them under the table...Hello Carl,<br />He wanted to slip them under the table, but I made him stand back up and hand them to me dropping them into my purse. I don't know if anyone saw him but it was crowded so it's possible. More important he thought someone might see.You guys are very easy to embarrass and he was embarrassed Some woman may embarrass men because they enjoy it but I do it to get his ego under control.It works. At least for Jay more than half of the time he is in trouble with me is failure to contol his ego<br />Marisa Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-81364425072897409582016-06-22T09:03:42.447-07:002016-06-22T09:03:42.447-07:00"I sent him to a restroom to remove his under..."I sent him to a restroom to remove his underpants and then return and hand them to me."<br /><br />WOW!! That sounds like flying the white flag of surrender!<br /><br />Could and did anyone else in the restaurant see him hand them to you?<br /><br />What did you do after he handed them to you?<br /><br />Marisa, that sounds like a very inventive and effective punishment - or pre-punishment. One of the best non corporal punishments I have ever heard of.<br /><br />Carl HAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-36662954037961596422016-06-21T20:11:23.951-07:002016-06-21T20:11:23.951-07:00Hi Marisa. Very interesting and inventive way to ...Hi Marisa. Very interesting and inventive way to ratchet down the situationDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-86046141888213710382016-06-21T12:42:21.836-07:002016-06-21T12:42:21.836-07:00Hello Dan,
So many interesting conversations are g...Hello Dan,<br />So many interesting conversations are going on. I never actually removed Jay to discipline him but once at a out of town restaurant I sent him to a restroom to remove his underpants and then return and hand them to me. That settled him down but if it hadn't I probably would have left the restaurant and took him back to our hotel for a spanking he would regret.As it turned out I did spank him later that night back in our room, but less severe than he would have got if my underpants order had not settled him down. We were alone by the way and I have often wondered if I would have done it with another couple present.With at least a couple of our friends who know I am in charge ( but don't know I spank him) I think I might have. That would be a memory<br />Marisa Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-53434442622252730512016-06-21T07:12:48.785-07:002016-06-21T07:12:48.785-07:00Yes, I guess some victories are best enjoyed silen...Yes, I guess some victories are best enjoyed silently! Again, not my strong suit, but like everyone else, I'm a work in progress.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.com