tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post7072579116249130669..comments2024-03-29T07:53:43.303-07:00Comments on The Disciplinary Couples Club: Love Our LurkersDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-51478638952741372002015-11-15T14:29:20.772-08:002015-11-15T14:29:20.772-08:00Thanks Dan,
Just saw our niece and my wife;s best...Thanks Dan,<br /><br />Just saw our niece and my wife;s best friend, nice to share with others who miss her, I'm sure I always will, but its time to get back to thriving despite my loss.cleveland_Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03033544921425858554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-71464656188510696802015-11-15T13:25:21.404-08:002015-11-15T13:25:21.404-08:00Hi Tom. My condolences regarding your wife's ...Hi Tom. My condolences regarding your wife's passing.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-77970283225507978542015-11-14T19:45:27.658-08:002015-11-14T19:45:27.658-08:00Hey all, also belated LOL day, lost my wife to can...Hey all, also belated LOL day, lost my wife to cancer 4 years ago today, so it a sad day of remembrance for me.<br /><br />Never got to a FLM, just played occasionally. Confessed my spanko interests on our first date, and she didn't bat an eye. Short ten years together, I never felt so loved.<br /><br />Have a closed group of spanko friends that get together and play once a month, it has one switching couple that play in the femdom space, really nice people and it gives me a chance to play but unlikely to a relationship unless some one runs into someone and introduces them outside of the group...<br /><br />I had some long and intense spankings but always in a play context, never for punishment. During them, I always seem to be coming from a, "can I take this?", perspective, to which I find that I can relax and absorb it, which stokes my ego but isn't really where I want to go. I think that a determined women who knows how to vary the timing, intensity and implements could take me past that.<br /><br />If not Merry's 20/40 rinse-repeat cycle might well take me places I'd like/don't-want to go.<br /><br />Hanging out by the Lakescleveland_Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03033544921425858554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-60300189019010634372015-11-14T14:55:16.520-08:002015-11-14T14:55:16.520-08:00Hey Bonnie! Same to you, and thanks for inspiring...Hey Bonnie! Same to you, and thanks for inspiring everyone to do it! Thanks for dropping by.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64919553580468304742015-11-14T13:07:19.325-08:002015-11-14T13:07:19.325-08:00A belated Happy LOL Day, Dan!A belated Happy LOL Day, Dan!Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-36284838230409859752015-11-14T08:36:06.067-08:002015-11-14T08:36:06.067-08:00Hi Lindy. Great to hear from you! Thanks for dro...Hi Lindy. Great to hear from you! Thanks for dropping by.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-25391397371560286552015-11-13T21:46:48.418-08:002015-11-13T21:46:48.418-08:00Hello dropping by for LOL day. Just found your bl...Hello dropping by for LOL day. Just found your blog. Enjoy your day.<br />Cheers Lindy from DOWNUNDER DREAMINGLindy Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13859977416089280383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-10671127529795252712015-11-13T11:30:53.610-08:002015-11-13T11:30:53.610-08:00Hi Scott. It sounds like she did a great job of t...Hi Scott. It sounds like she did a great job of taking over and fixing some long-standing problems. I understand the booze issue. It is my #1 behavioral problem and by far the biggest reason for my punishments. Thanks for joining in, and I hope you'll keep us posted from time to time.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-64559383831931859752015-11-13T11:28:30.535-08:002015-11-13T11:28:30.535-08:00That's great. It can take awhile. We've ...That's great. It can take awhile. We've been at it for close to 10 years, yet it is still very much a work in progress.Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-41675492489470513572015-11-13T11:27:21.282-08:002015-11-13T11:27:21.282-08:00Good to hear. Thanks for joining in.
DanGood to hear. Thanks for joining in.<br /><br />DanDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-37141504921982861372015-11-13T11:26:47.377-08:002015-11-13T11:26:47.377-08:00H Anonymous. I'm glad you like it.
DanH Anonymous. I'm glad you like it.<br /><br />DanDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-81397490544430604112015-11-13T11:26:19.063-08:002015-11-13T11:26:19.063-08:00Hi Rob. That's great that you discovery DD af...Hi Rob. That's great that you discovery DD after 30 years. Welcome, and thanks for the compliment!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-80010940933273745482015-11-13T10:59:52.814-08:002015-11-13T10:59:52.814-08:00Dan
It was last year i commented about how i had i...Dan<br />It was last year i commented about how i had insulted my brother in law at wedding and my wife took me upstairs to punish me then with sore bottom had to go down to reception and ask him to forgive me. Sadly around xmas<br />last year my wife and i had a trial separation. I knew at once it was a mistake, but since it had been my idea she made it clear that i was going to either follow her rules or she would make it permanent.<br />After several months of therapy she took me back on September 4th of this year. Putting aside my heavy use of booze, which doesn't happen any longer, I have accepted her as the leader of our marriage. I accept her orders and something as simple as wash the dishes, means then not when i get to it.<br />In addition I need to report weekly for what i call the confessional. Basically its sitting quietly with her and telling her what I have done that might annoy her. Caning at present seems to be her tool of choice. Tears from me are her sign that I have gotten the lesson. Tonite I know I will be very sore and I dread it. The alternative of living with out her guidance is worse. Scott<br />ps.. i write this on her orders!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-39310206872808624012015-11-13T09:50:28.446-08:002015-11-13T09:50:28.446-08:00It's been a while since i've been here, bu...It's been a while since i've been here, but great coincidence it's today! <br />My wife is taking (slowly) control of how things are done here. It's been a good ride (with spankings from time to time, lol) sara eAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-30604523240310447412015-11-12T22:51:20.561-08:002015-11-12T22:51:20.561-08:00Liz, that is awesome! I am so glad to hear that y...Liz, that is awesome! I am so glad to hear that you discovered something new in yourself. That is truly amazing, and so gratifying to hear. Please, don't let LoL be your only contact with us. Please jump in whenever you see something worth commenting on!Dan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-83022046544946829502015-11-12T22:26:51.966-08:002015-11-12T22:26:51.966-08:00I visit fairly frequently, as you might imagine, t...I visit fairly frequently, as you might imagine, to see what's new.<br />MichaelMichael Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03973355063564380071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-37218327212336479902015-11-12T18:53:54.102-08:002015-11-12T18:53:54.102-08:00I enjoy your blogI enjoy your blogAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-5064535373925842442015-11-12T15:09:27.822-08:002015-11-12T15:09:27.822-08:00Hi Dan! - - Yup, I'm guilty as charged...lurki...Hi Dan! - - Yup, I'm guilty as charged...lurking. This past year has been one of change. In January, my bride of 30 years and I began the discussion of implementing WLF and DD in our marriage. Six months ago we began toying and playing around with it. Three months ago, we formalized everything. This morning I received one of her punishment spankings. She has become most proficient with the wooden spoon!<br /><br />Thanks for your weekly posts. I find your commentary most enjoyable reading.<br /><br />Best regards...Rob Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-72791901860396212422015-11-12T14:31:16.977-08:002015-11-12T14:31:16.977-08:00Hi Dan -- My husband and I are new into the world ...Hi Dan -- My husband and I are new into the world of domestic discipline and wife led marriages. Reading your blog has been very helpful. My husband confessed to me his desire for domestic discipline. At the time I was not familiar with the concept, but reading how you and others have made dd a part of your lives has been so very helpful and informative. It was difficult at first for me to discipline him, but I must tell you that I have discovered a part of me that I never knew before - and its all good. Thanks to you and all your regular contributors.<br />LizAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-78274636789999441142015-11-12T10:35:31.587-08:002015-11-12T10:35:31.587-08:00Hi Leigh. Thanks stopping by, and please do come ...Hi Leigh. Thanks stopping by, and please do come back soon!<br /><br />DanDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-20071448767829819922015-11-12T10:33:01.490-08:002015-11-12T10:33:01.490-08:00Hi Liz! Great to have you. I agree that a lot of...Hi Liz! Great to have you. I agree that a lot of the discussions around DD really is role-based and we recipients have much in common, regardless of the gender of the person swinging the paddle and giving us direction. You are welcome to lurk or join -- whatever feels right at the time.<br /><br />DanDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-24790064688916025562015-11-12T10:30:11.279-08:002015-11-12T10:30:11.279-08:00HI Ronnie. Great to have you stop by. Thanks for c...HI Ronnie. Great to have you stop by. Thanks for commenting today, and please jump in any time in the future!<br /><br />DanDan - A Disciplined Hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588294648648656600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-47978932457234044902015-11-12T09:51:18.709-08:002015-11-12T09:51:18.709-08:00First time stopping by. I'll be back. Happy ...First time stopping by. I'll be back. Happy LOL Day.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-90018487826025237462015-11-12T09:40:01.855-08:002015-11-12T09:40:01.855-08:00I'm not a lurker yet ;) as I just came to your...I'm not a lurker yet ;) as I just came to your blog yesterday. I've enjoyed reading your comments on one of the forums we share and you came highly recommended by a mutual friend. I'm in a M/f Domestic Discipline relationship but I believe the experiences in and advice for a DD relationship are more in line with the roles of the relationship not the genders. I look forward to lurking and maybe even commenting occasionally in the future.<br />CheersQuietLizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12364425377163959292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6699266088923868373.post-79459682839157594912015-11-12T07:20:51.957-08:002015-11-12T07:20:51.957-08:00I've stopped a few times but have never commen...I've stopped a few times but have never commented:(<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.com