Hello all. Welcome back to the Forum. Our weekly gathering of men and women who are in, or would like to be in, a Domestic Discipline or Female Led Relationship. I hope you had a good week.
Mine was one of those where I feel like I was going non-stop, yet I didn't get much done. In some ways, I think I did accomplish some "big picture" things or at least laid the groundwork for them, but I didn't get around to a lot of the day-to-day work projects that I really need to get done. So, another weekend may be spent catching up instead of recovering. My own fault to some extent.
We had a good discussion last week, all extending from a fairly simple topic about spanking in front of a window. I want to thank Tina for reminding us all that while being spanked in public may be arousing to the participants, it may not be to accidental observers. It's a very good point that sometimes gets lost in this age of social media where everyone shares everything and just kind of assumes that others want to be exposed to it all. While I do think my wife and I have been perhaps a little too guarded about our DD relationship, I think it is one thing to consider exposing your own family to knowledge of the fact of a DD relationship, and quite another to simply impose it on others in a very graphic and visual way.
These themes are on my mind this morning, because last night after I got home from a business trip, she announced that I could expect a spanking some time today. And, yes, as usual I have gone from wanting this lifestyle and wanting it more strict, more severe, more 24/7, to really wanting to avoid the whole thing. And, that has been the entire history of our DD relationship, craving being a disciplined right up until that moment that is going to really happen. The quote from Mark Twain above illustrates how a true DD relationship really is a little outside the norm, because while many men spend their lives worrying about all sorts of bad things that never end up happening, we disciplined husbands may spend a good bit of time worrying about the prospect of painful events that are likely to become all too real!
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