Saturday, July 18, 2015

The Forum - Vol. 97 - Outdoor Spankings

Hello all. I hope you had a great week.  For me, ust two more workdays 'til Monday! 

In response to my recent whine that I seemed to be hitting a bad case of writer's block regarding new topics, an anonymous reader suggested asking whether our readers have ever been spanked outdoors, and to please provide the titillating details. Since it is summer and all, that seems like a fun one.


To broaden the scope a little, let's include things like the iconic woodshed within our definitiion of "outdoors." 





Though, as those who have been reading the blog for a a while know, I kind of have a thing for woodsheds, barns, and other rustic DD settings.  So, I will jump on any excuse to include them in a topic.

Unfortunately, I don't have much to say on this one. I have not been disciplined outside, nor have I been spanked in a woodshed, barn or their equivalent.  So, for now, this one is an unfulfilled fetish.

Have a great week.

Dan


36 comments:

  1. Mmmm
    In a two car garage, no cars in it, several times;
    In a public storage unit;
    Around the fire pit, which was outside the dungeon at a BDSM party.

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    1. He neglected to mention bent over the hot tub, That one was actually filmed.

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    2. Neglect out of forgetfulness. Yeah, that was in our back yard, which is quite isolated due to the long garage on one side, and a high cinder block fence all along the back.

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    3. Very interesting places. Thans to you both.

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  2. A sultry, warm night on the beach at St. Croix: hands tied above me to a tree branch, shirt off, pants down. My bottom and backs of my thighs were thoroughly whipped with my own belt, which I had to hand to my lovely wife and ask for the spanking. The sex in the beach hammock afterward was spectacular, even if it meant my scalding bottom was ground into the ropes of the swing. Thanks for asking!!

    And, speaking of summer and outdoors, how many of you have been punished by being tied up outdoors, naked?

    And, Merry - when do we see that hot tub spanking vid?

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    1. That one is on our C4S site. I'm sure some people might think we're horrible for filming and then selling it, but the money earned goes towards funding rising medical bills for my disabled son.

      The title is "Caught In The Act" and you can get a free preview on our site

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  3. Hi Dan,
    The woman who introduced me to discipline was fascinated with outdoor spanking. The first time I remember being spanked outdoors was in a forest near us not heavily used but with hiking trails. She picked a very large tree and made me lean against it while pushing my bottom out before paddling me with a sorority paddle. I remember thinking how surreal the scene was and wondering what I would do if someone happened by. She was normally careful of noise when she spanked but outside she was completely uninhibited. Late in our relationship she spanked me in a “woodshed” in her yard. It was actually a storage shed mostly empty. She took me out there three or four times, all were punishment spankings. She would make me strip once inside the shed and then take my clothes with her back into the house while I did corner time in the shed. (15 to 20 minutes.) Then she would return and administer a spanking with her hairbrush. There wasn’t that much privacy between yards so it could have been heard. The last time she spanked me in the shed was at night and dark. After the spanking she marched me into the house without allowing me to get dressed. It was one of those moments supremely embarrassing and supremely erotic at the same time
    Alan

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    1. HI Alan. Thanks for the post. At some point the link between embarrassment and this thing we do is probably worth a topic.

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  4. My Lady used to take me out into the forest. She would wear her shiny black rubber mackintosh because she knew how much it turned me on. She would then tie me against a tree, strip of my trousers and pants, and whip me with her martinet. After my punishment I was made to put on a pair of rubber pants to keep the heat of my striped bottom in for the rest of the day. I loved her dearly, and all the more for "keeping me in libn."

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    1. The sounds fabulous. It ticks my boxes of rubber and pvc mackintosh fetishism as well as corporal punishment - plus the thrill and fear of someone seeing the thrashing being carried out.

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    2. Thanks, Anonymous. RM, glad to see you are still with us. Haven't heard from you in a while.

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    3. Do others dress, or their ladies dress, in special attire when receiving or giving punishment I wonder?
      Could be the start of a new topic methinks!

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  5. Dan

    The very first real discipline I received was in my my grandfather's barn. I was 14 and my aunt found my cousin Jason and I smoking behind the barn. She calmly ordered us into the barn and ordered me to face the wall as she walloped my cousins bare bottom. Facing the wall like that and hearing his sobs i was totally freaked out. Finally she told me to turn around and I saw the very red bottom of my cousin Jason. She told him
    to stand and face the wall and then pulled my shorts down and walloped my ass for what seemed an eternity.I was reduced to tears like Jason, thinking she would go lightly on me cause I was her nephew. WRONG!
    When she told me to stand and face the wall I saw the ping pong paddle she had used on us. Jason and I were ordered to stand facing the wall with shorts still around our ankles. That my Aunt Josie had seen my penis had me totally freaked. Jason and I stood there in the barn till dinner was over. We didnt speak the whole
    time. When she came back she told us to pull up our shorts and go in and get into bed. No dinner. Both of us were totally humiliated and didnt speak at all that night. I also never smoked again.
    Funny postscript. That nite when I thought Jason was sleeping i masturbated thinking of what had happened.
    A few years ago Jason told me he too had masturbated and then we both confessed we still liked the idea of spanking by a woman.

    Scott

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    1. Hi Scott. That one is great on a bunch of different levels. Thanks for contributing.

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  6. Have not experienced it yet, but have a fantasy of having my wife make me pull over on a dark country road. She would have me come around the car, pull down my pants and underwear and bend over the passenger seat. She would spank me and we would continue our drive. Don't really care whether any cars pass by.

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  7. Susan's widowed Mom (now getting elderly) lives not too far away, and we have spent a lot of time at her house over the years. After we adopted the DWC lifestyle a dozen years or so ago, it did not take long before she found it necessary to administer a spanking while we visiting her Mom. So, she made an excuse to he Mom, and took me out to an old storage shed at the back corner of her yard and paddled me with a convenient piece of board that happened to be stacked in the corner. That was the first of several that I have received in that storage shed over the years. --al

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    1. It is great that she doesn't let a visit to her mother interfere with keeping you in line

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  8. Dan
    Necessity is often the mother of invention. My inlaws live on a lake. The area is wooded and on more than one occasion, especially if our stay lasts longer than a weekend, Anna has taken me for a long walk at twilight, and once out of site and more important hearing out of hearing range, I have paid for bad behavior with a good hard and often long session bare bottomed and bent over a log or fallen tree. Weapon is usually my belt. Last summer after a stopping an argument with my brother in law, that almost came to blows Anna took me for "the walk". About a mile from the house we stopped and it was then she realized I had no belt on my trousers. Quickly she had me bend over and she grabbed a branch from a fallen tree. I was sure that I was heard back at the house as the branch was dried and it stung. There was no need to pretend i was crying there were real tears. One of the few times that back in our room Anna soothed my bruises with a cream.
    Peter

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    1. Ouch! Thanks for sharing, Peter. Hope you and Anna are doing well.

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  9. The images you posted revived real-life memories for me. The outdoors OTK with the switch was just like the one I had the day before our wedding. We were up at Lake Tahoe - there was still some patchy snow left on the ground in fact.

    And the shed? Well there was an old rundown one on the property when we moved here and she had me fix it up. It was really cruddy inside with years of being used as a junk-utility shed. All the boards were split and cold air came through. Anyway, I fixed it up as good as I could; not being a real handyman or anythings.

    We have other other F/m spanking couples as friends. I can't believe how much people want to use it. And for some reason it's always a strap or cane or the dreaded switch out there. Never OTK! We have some padded stuff that the guys can layover. But it's usually a stand-up experience.

    By the way. Just for the record, I hate the damn thing.

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    1. Love and hate? Or just hate?

      Thanks for the contribution, Tomy. Hope it's the first of many.

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  10. Though I haven't had too much "outdoor opportunity" in recent years, back in my pre-marriage days, I did a lot of camping with my ex. We had a running joke that I had been disciplined in one way or another in every major campground in our state.

    Most times I would be switched with whatever could be found locally often while totally naked out in the woods. However, I do recall a few times we went 'hiking' while her favorite hairbrush was tucked in her fanny-pack. At these times we would just scout around for a clearing with a fallen tree that she would sit on while I went OTK. There was this one time (in the early 80's) when short gym shorts were actually the style for both sexes, not these below-the-knee shorts you see now. Anyway, after a pretty decent spanking I had these two 'c'-clips hooked over the waistband in back each lifting the shorts legs up high so that my pink bottom was clearly on display as we hiked back....with me naturally leading the way so she could snicker at my hinder. Thankfully no one else was on the trail.

    Rosa and I are considering a camping trip this October. I am wondering if she will want to try something similar.

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  11. Though I haven't had too much "outdoor opportunity" in recent years, back in my pre-marriage days, I did a lot of camping with my ex. We had a running joke that I had been disciplined in one way or another in every major campground in our state.

    Most times I would be switched with whatever could be found locally often while totally naked out in the woods. However, I do recall a few times we went 'hiking' while her favorite hairbrush was tucked in her fanny-pack. At these times we would just scout around for a clearing with a fallen tree that she would sit on while I went OTK. There was this one time (in the early 80's) when short gym shorts were actually the style for both sexes, not these below-the-knee shorts you see now. Anyway, after a pretty decent spanking I had these two 'c'-clips hooked over the waistband in back each lifting the shorts legs up high so that my pink bottom was clearly on display as we hiked back....with me naturally leading the way so she could snicker at my hinder. Thankfully no one else was on the trail.

    Rosa and I are considering a camping trip this October. I am wondering if she will want to try something similar.

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  12. During a short hike on our anniversary, I requested that my wife wear a belt. I had a pack with rope that I used to tie her to a large tree, her arms wrapped around it and her bare breasts ground into the rough bark. I whipped her ass with her belt, then let her down and gave her some loving bent over a moss covered boulder, then more ass whipping till she was crying.

    A few years later I learned about female led marriage and fem dom. I realised that I could take a whipping much more happily than she and have been completely on the receiving end since.
    Last summer she tied me up naked in our shed, wrists roped over head over the beam. She bound my cock and balls and left me there to sweat and wonder when she would come back. When she did I was belt whipped. It was wonderful.

    Las month we staking up some plants with bamboo stakes. I was excited thinking about how they could be used. She fulfilled my dreams when she had me drop my shorts and bound over, then caned me for the first time. We both liked that quite a lot and she has given me a few quick canings since then, including one on the screen porch which is essentially outside.

    We will be camping next week and I am ever hopeful that she will spank, whip, crop, flog or whatever on my yearning body in the great outdoors.

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  13. Hello Dan,
    I have never spanked him outside unless you count the back seat of our car which was in the garage at the time. Spanking outside veers a little toward the fun /erotic side of it and and I think spanking, if its disciplinary, should be separate from bedroom fun.I would spank him outside if it were necessary for example he seriously misbehaved while on a multi day camping trip. But I wouldn't look for opportunities like that .I believe discipline should usually be private and spanking belongs inside in your personal space.
    Marisa

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    1. Marisa

      I agree with you, but there are times that kids, or family around extreme methods have to be used. I refer you to my husbands entry above. I would never have taken him to the woods if I didnt need to avoid world war three between my husband and my brother over a football game. Peter got very far
      out of line.
      Fearing that the idea might have sexual overtones to Peter I made sure that it was a very intense
      beating. Now having read his entry I sense there was an erotic arousal for him in the memory. I warned
      him not to get any ideas about goading my brother when we go to visit next month. I want discipline to
      be that discipline.

      Anna

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    2. Hello Anna,

      Thanks for your thoughtful response to my post. I agree there are times when immediate action is necessary. That was how Jay found himself butt up over my lap in the back of his SUV for a blistering he didn't forget for a long time. But to your other point keeping it non erotic with a male having a spanking fetish is the challenge we all face Spanking discipline works with these guys but it has to be 100 percent on our terms or they will turn it into a game.
      Marisa

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    3. Hello to you both. I agree it's not hard to fetish-ize anything related to spanking, but I do wonder if the possibility of humiliating discovery would add an additional punishment element?

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    4. Dan

      Perhaps that question would be a great topic for this blog. How many men either fear or are aroused by the concept of others discovering they are disciplined in this manner.

      Anna

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    5. A very good suggestion and perhaps part of the question could ask how many wives have " outed" him to a third party, plan to do so or threatened to do so.
      Marisa

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    6. Great suggestions. I will incorporate them into a new topic. Thanks!

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  14. Our family will often go to the mountains in Arizona to escape the heat of Phoenix. Our place is in a small town nestled I the biggest ponderosa pine forest in the world. Yeah, I know ... in Arizona? Yep. Anyway, when we are there, it is always with plenty of family around in close quarters. Not very conducive for receiving a spanking. I have mentioned to Mistress K. in the past that if she was inclined, we could drive into the nearby forest where we would certainly be alone, so that she could impose whatever punishment I had coming to me. The idea is very intriguing to her but to date, it hasn't happened. But, I have a feeling that it will before the summer is over.

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    1. We also go to the mountains fairly often but, like you, no DD there yet

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  15. We live out in the country and I planted some landscaping timbers vertically into the ground in several places around the house for another purpose entirely, but we have found that they serve quite well as whipping posts. On two occasions now, my wife has taken me outside with my hands tied together and roped them to the top of one of the posts. Then she commenced on me with several varieties of switches until I safeworded. THESE WERE WONDERFUL EXPERIENCES THAT I HOPE SHE WILL REQUIRE OF ME AGAIN VERY SOON!

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