This week's topic relates to something we've talked about under the general heading of "More," i.e. what more we want from our DD and FLR relationships. The "more" in the case of this week's topic is "consistency." What role does consistency play in your relationship? Is DD more an event, or a process? Meaning, is it something that happens sporadically for specific infractions, or is it something that is part of a more consistently applied disciplinary or FLR regimen?
One theme I would like to see us explore a bit is, for the Disciplinary Wives, is it hard to be consistent, or harder NOT to be? This is an issue Rhiannon has explored on her blog, and she took my own thoughts on this in a different direction. I had always assumed that being the leader in an FLR-oriented relationship, or doling out DD punishments consistently, could be a very difficult thing, because of the need to be "on" all the time. Always, or at least very often, in that control position and that leader mindset. But, as her blog points out, the converse may be even more of a problem. The on again, off again ebbs and flows might keep the disciplinary wife always on edge and never quite getting into a personal zone where she really feels in control.
I know this is a broad topic, but that seems to work well with this group. Throwing out a general theme and letting people take it where they will.
I hope you all have a great weekend.