This week's topic is about how bad behavior comes to the attention of our DD wives. Personal observation obvioulsy plays a major role. But, what other means do our Disciplinary Wives have, or have they imposed, to gather the information necessary to keep us in check?
Self-reporting? If so, do you have a particular system in place? How well does it work? Have you thought of any effective mechanism to prevent him from cheating by just not telling?
How about informants? Is there someone in his life who will rat him out for bad behavior, such as Anna's relationships with some of Peter's workplace colleagues? Monitor spending, internet use, emails, etc.? One of our FLR wives and bloggers who is all about finding concrete ways to transform FLR goals into FLR daily reality recommends making him keep and submit a daily journal.
I have also posted a new poll. The topic is a little squishy, and it's a hard one to do within the inherent limitations of a poll with pre-formed answers, but it tries to quantify the motivations underlying the disciplined husband's interests in pursuing a DD lifestyle.
I hope you all have a great week.