Saturday, February 14, 2015

The Forum - Vol. 77

Hi all.  I hope you had a great week.  Before we got onto this week's topic, I now step into the role of movie critic and report on last night's viewing of 50 Shades.  In short, it somehow manages to make S&M boring.  I took my wife in the hope that seeing a Dom in action might give her some tips on demeanor.  Not so much.  I did not find Jamie Dornan the least bit believable as a Dom.  He just doesn't bring to the role any sense that this is a guy who has the gravitas to control other people.  And, I think it is even worse than the book when it comes to portraying spanking and kink in a negative light.  Finally, when you remove the kink, this is just one more "working girl meets rich messed up guy; he saves her and she saves him right back" movie, but there are a hundred better done examples of that genre.

So, on to this week's topic, which was inspired by something that happened at my gym this week.  After my morning workout, I was in the locker room getting ready to take a shower.  A guy who I have seen naked in that locker room hundreds of times was getting dressed in front of an adjoining locker.  He had showered and was wrapped in a towel.  What caught my attention was that when it came time to put on his underwear and pants, he pulled them on while still wearing the towel, such that his bare bottom was never exposed.  Only after he was clothed from the waist down did he remove the towel.

I can come up with no other explanation for why he kept that towel in place, other than covering signs of a recent spanking!  As I said, this is someone who I have seen naked dozens of times, and he has never exhibited any shyness about baring his body.  In fact, the guy is one of the most chiseled and ripped specimens in the gym -- he definitely has no reason to hide anything, other than perhaps some bruises or striping from a recent disciplinary sesssion!

So, this week's question is, have you ever had to cover the telltale signs of a recent spanking?  Tell us all about it!

Dan

18 comments:

  1. He also might have been wearing a chastity device...

    Gets one thinking, doesn't it?

    OOPS! used my vanilla page, Can you completely delete that?

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    1. I hadn't thought of that, but you're right, that could be an alternative explanation.

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  2. Dan
    This happened a few years ago soon after my wife began using domestic discipline. I often work out with a buddy of mine a few times a week. I had been caned on a friday nite and by tuesday I had forgotten all about it. Went to the gym with my buddy Tim. We were in the locker room and I dropped my work pants not thinking. At that time I most often went commando. Well Tim saw my still bruised ass and freaked." What the F happened to your ass" he asked. Like an idiot I stop and go check my ass out in the mirror on the far end of the gym. I had totally forgotten about the caning. When I saw the bruises I must have turned 50 shades of red not grey. Tim laughs and whispers to me " Were you a bad boy? Did you have to stand in the corner too? "
    Lesson learned I always wear briefs to gym and never shower there.
    Brad

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    1. Wow, that IS embarrassing. At least your buddy made it into a joke.

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    2. Something similar happened to me a few years back. My wife gave me a caning which was still felt a couple of hours later. But an inspection in the mirror showed that the marks had cleared up. I went to the health club and had a good work out. After a hot shower, I was getting dressed and thought I saw someone checking me out. At first I thought he might be gay, but after he left and when no one was around, I checked myself in the mirror and saw that the cane marks re-appeared, probably from the hot water. I was so embarrassed that I stopped going to that health club. To this day, I shower only at home.

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    3. I hadn't thought of that as a possible issue, but I'm sure it happens. Thanks, Harrold.

      Dan

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  3. Dan:

    About 50 shades... I think it shows an unrealistic view of BDSM as a whole. I know the story is very poorly written, and most people in the BDSM lifestyle have dismissed it as pure crap.

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  4. Ive not read or seen "50 shades" nor is either on the list.
    I've not HAD to cover tell tale signs of recent activity because I simply would not try but...
    I dont do gyms, whether public or home.
    I'm at a loss for which my bare bottom might be available for viewing.


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  5. HI Dan, thanks for a great topic. I was thinking the same thing that Merry was in that it may also have been a chastity device. The answer to your question specifically is one occasion, I was sitting in an early after noon meting, after just coming from home. Mistress had summoned me home for a violation that required an immediate punishment spanking. I was shifting from side to side. It was an uncharacteristic hard paddling I had received. Mistress was NOT happy that day.

    To Merry's point, there have been plenty of times that I needed to cover up my chastity device.

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  6. I didn't read the book and probably won't see the movie anytime soon - maybe when it's in the bargain bin somewhere. Although, I am clearly into F/M DD, I don't really follow the larger BDSM scene as a whole. When I first started reading spanking stories, I did read some M/F stories and viewed the M/F pics online, of course. However, it soon became apparent to me that M/F just did not really resonate with me.

    Dan - interesting observation and I bet you are correct in the belief that he was hiding a marked behind. Given the scenario you presented, that seems the most likely reason (could be chastity device - but if it is, I bet he gets spanked as well!). I can't say that I've ever encountered anything like that before. I do go to the gym, but don't shower there - as I always go home from the gym and shower at home - otherwise that would certainly be an issue - since my bottom has some marking on it at least half the time. In fact, we have to pay attention around my annual physical to make sure that I don't reveal any incriminating evidence to the doc....

    --al

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    1. Thanks, Al. So far, I seem to be the only one who worksout in a gym and also showers there. But, the showers in the gym I go to are private stalls, so if you can figure out a way to strip down then enter and exit in private, no one will see. That does take some work and planning, including loccer placement. I usually try to find a loccer in the corner, so I can turn my butt to face that corner when I strip and get dressed. My concern is that at some point I am giong to do go in there half-awake in the morning and do something like Brad and simply forget that I'm marked.

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    2. Dan - I'm glad you described how you dealt with being nude in the gym - I meant to ask you on my last post but forgot. My gym also has private showers - so I could use a similar approach if I ever have to. Only another disciplined husband would even given a second thought - someone else would just assume there was a modesty issue.

      --al

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  7. Once, many years ago, I had to go for a "urodynamics" test. (It has to be the most embarrassing test I've ever had, and I've had quite a few others that are pretty embarrassing, You have a catheter inserted so they can artificially fill your bladder with saline, patch type sensors on your inner buttcheeks and a tubular sensor inserted in your butt. They fill your bladder then have you pee and measure the muscle contractions as you do. The procedure is repeated so they have a few trials to average as well.) Anyway there was a male doctor and a female technician in attendance. I had not thought there was anything amiss but found it odd that the female technician kept giving me these odd smiles. I had simply thought they were smiles of a quiet sympathy and support for what she knew had to be a very uncomfortable and embarrassing medical procedure, but later I looked in the mirror at home and saw my butt still bore some very distinct or telltale (to one 'in the know') marks from a spanking I had a day earlier. Since the test was not planned but rather came out of a visit to this specialist, I had not gone to the office thinking I would be actually exposed the way I was. I thought it would be mostly a consultation. Anyway I still don't know for certain whether the technician's smirky smiles were about the marks or not, but since I did not think I had visible marks her expression confused me since it didn't seem like a typical smile. My feeling after I saw the leftover marks convinced me she figured out what caused them.

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  9. Dan
    A few years ago Peter and I had a great week in Hawaii. Peter's boss had given us his home in Diamond Head. On our second evening there Peter drank a bit too much and began acting out with our waiter. When we got home that nite I was more than angry. Peter wisely slept that nite in the other bedroom.
    The next morning calmer but still annoyed, I took his belt and marked his bottom a bit. The next day he had a few bruises. That afternoon we went to the beach and Peter wore surfer shorts. The surf was a bit rough in the later afternoon. The beach was packed and Peter as he was leaving the surf, was hit by a wave and his shorts heavy with water slid down so that very bruised bottom was on display.Peter was carrying his surf board so it was difficult to get the shorts pulled up. He
    was mortified and to make matters worse as he came to our blanket the lady sitting a few feet away told Peter what a lovely bottom he had.
    A Smiling Anna

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    1. So terrible for Peter! At least it was in front of strangers. Did you feel proud of your handiwork? :-)

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  10. I remember two such occasions... Once (years ago) when my girlfiend picked a switch and lowered my swimming trunks to whip me on the beach of a lake in Austria just before some vacationers came strolling by - and another time (years later) when the lady who owned/operated the small B&B where we were staying in N. Spain walked it unannounced to bring us breakfast just after my wife had delivered a sharp volley of lashes of her martinet to my bare derrière -which I immediately (but not very effectively!) attempted to cover up with a towel when the landlady walked in ( I still remember the smile on her face!)

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