Saturday, January 18, 2014

The Forum - Question of the Week #35

Welcome back everyone.  For those in the United States, I hope you are enjoying the start of your three-day weekend.

This week topic is "Oops!" moments.   By which I mean, moments when you realize you just did something that might have led to another person discovering your domestic discipline and/or spanking lifestyle.  Maybe you forgot to clear the browser history on your computer before someone else used it.  Maybe you accidentally used your real name in a blog post or email that you meant to be anonymous or you intended to use a pseudonym.  Maybe you went walking through the gym locker room naked, with stripes or bruises on your bottom, after you forgot too quickly about the previous night's disciplinary session.

As always, please leave a comment in the Guestbook (the post immediately below this one).  And, please consider contributing a fictional or non-fictional story.  You can access our user stories via the link in the Links section on the right side of this blog. 

Have a great weekend!


18 comments:

  1. I went for my monthly massage and had my CB 6000 on. The girl massaging me noticed the device thru the sheet and asked me what it was. I showed it to her and she was astonished and asked me why I would ever wear this. A short talk on femdom cleared it up and she was impressed. Wanted her husband to wear one for awhile.

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  2. Dan I love your site. I've read many spanking stories and one can tell some of them are pure fantasy, while others are true. From what I read about men accepting spanking, it was something they requested and the wife/girlfriend agreed to try it. That is the case in our relationship. I had asked her to spank me, and I found the implements for her to use. She did it because it was something I wanted, and she had said she didn't understand why I wanted to feel the pain of being spanked. Usually after spanking we had some very wonderful sex and that part she really loved. Prior to the making love part, I found that after spanking me she was not just damp, she was soaked and I brought that to her attention asking if you don't like spanking me why are you so wet? She finally admitted that yes she did enjoy the control of putting me in position and spanking my bottom and watching it go from white to tan to pink to bright red. She even loved the way I kicked and wiggled my bottom during spanking. Although I have only received a few punishment spankings that I did deserve and no sex followed. We do have some play days where a spanking will go on most of the day and evening, using many different positions. For "all day" spankings she will spank me, we rest for about an hour then another spanking. Something she enjoys is after spanking putting me in what we call display position. I'm on my knees and elbows legs spread with everything on view. While in this position she will inspect my bottom, checking from the back of my legs to the top of my cheeks, the sides of my cheeks and yes even between my cheeks to see if everything is red enough. Display lasts about 5-10 minutes (her choice) and if there is an area that has not been well spanked, then it's back into another position for more spanking and by this time some of the redness has faded so she also brings that back, then back into display again for more inspection. To date I would say I've been re-spanked about 5 times before she was happy with her handy work. We both enjoy adding spanking to our lives and I'm happy to say I'm on the receiving end quite often.
    arched one

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  3. My wife, for christmas gave me two dozen pair of panties.She tosseed my boxer briefs and bikini briefs all of which were in black cotton. Inclulded in my selection of panties all of which were in pastels, were 4 pair of blk silk briefs that she allowed me to wear only on the days I play handball at my gym.
    I adjusted at once to the panties and even got to like the lacy ones in lavender. It was on a day I was wearing the pale lavender boy short style in lace, that my handball partner called to remind me we were playing that day. I at once planned to dash home and change before meeting him at the club but I got lost in the day and
    it wasnt until we were undressed and I was standing chatting with him that I realized he was staring at my panties. I blushed and then saw he was blushing. He said nothing. After the game we went for a beer still he said nothing. As I left he smiled and said like your panties hot stuff laughed and drove away .
    peter b

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    1. Dan
      A postscript to my entry about the day at the handball court. Yesterday I played with Scott my partner from last week. As we dressed to play I did remember to wear the black cotton bikini panties that can pass for guy briefs. Scott gave me a few jabs about where the lavender ones were, and then we went to play. Later when i got back to my locker, there was
      a note tossed in all it said was " You look better in lavender "
      Scott hasnt stopped teasing me yet about what he is calling my stalker.
      peter b

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    4. So, Peter, what do you think Scott is getting at with the teasing? Interested in the lifestyle? Already in it? Just trying to support a friend?

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    7. So, Peter, what do you think Scott is getting at with the teasing? Interested in the lifestyle? Already in it? Just trying to support a friend?

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    8. Dan
      Im not sure what Scott is getting at. Tell me what your first thought was when you read the update. Do you think he is the one who left the note?
      Got to say thanks for this site. So great to have a place where you can
      talk with someone who understands.
      peter b

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    9. My first reaction was that Scott left the note, but I could be totally wrong about that. Also that the teasing might mean he is interested in the lifestyle but won't come out and say it. But, all of that is pure speculation on my part, since I do not know him at all. But, at least he seems supportive of you and did not react negatively.

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    10. Dan

      Mystery solved. It was not my buddy Scott. It was, to my surprise, a fellow handball player who I shall call James. Two days ago, after a match with Scott, I had an hour to kill before I met my wife for dinner. I stopped for a beer and James who I know only slightly struck up a conversation. Long story short he confessed that he had left the note. Seems he too is a pantie boy for his wife. Must
      say it was strange sitting face to face with another man in the same situation. It felt good to sit with a man who understood, both the heat and the fear of being discovered. James too is in a female led
      marriage. He too longed to have a friend or fellow traveler as he called it who shared a lifestyle that
      cant be spoken of openly. As I left the bar I felt better knowing I have someone I can talk with openly.
      peter b.

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    11. Peter,

      That's really great. I often wonder how many people we know are into all sorts of kink that one would never imagine from just looking at them. I am not aware of anyone I know personally who is an FLR relationship, but who really knows? There are times I wish that we could be more open about it. On the other hand, I sometimes think that the secrecy adds a certain level of naughtiness and intrigue that I would not necessarily want to give up.

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  4. No 'oops' for me. My wife and I have sought, in vain, to find ANYthing that would humiliate or embarrass me.
    I'm not the type to VOLUNTEER my lifestyle with co-workers, simply because I rarely discuss my home life at all.
    But if I was asked a direct question.... "Hey, you ever get spanked by your wife?" I would answer honestly.

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  5. BRAVO Merryslave!

    As it should be! After reading your statement Mrs. B has instituted this as a new rule for me to live by.
    peter b.

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