Monday, December 2, 2013

Disciplinary Wives Club status?

Does anyone know whether the Disciplinary Wives Club is finally gone for good?  It was replaced a couple of weeks ago with a notice saying its registration had expired.  As many of you know, I credit that website for getting my wife and I started in DD, and I know many others have had the same experience.  I hope it has not been taken down permanently, but the last time this happened it was down for only a day or two.  It has now been gone at least two weeks.


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  1. I think it's gone for ever and too bad. It was a great resource and likely many would have taken it over if given the opportunity. Aunt Kay had not updated for months and there was little sign anyone was minding the store at all the past year or more. A shame and a loss.

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  2. After Aunt Kay posted her notice asking for suggestions a couple of months back, I corresponded with her privately as my wife and I were "card carrying members" back in the day when the Club was active. She basically said that although she and Jerry were still in the lifestyle, that she was essentially "retiring" from her "public" role. She did not mention, however, that they were simply going to the let the domain expire,but I guess that just followed. Perhaps someone else as legit as Aunt Kay will eventually reopen the site along the same lines.

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  3. Used to be the most professional site of it's type for many years. For the last 2-3 years though it was neglected. For example the last survey kept promising results soon, but more than 3 years elapsed and still no result. Then the Guest book was removed. Like you I was sorry to see it die, but face it had died 3 years ago. Can understand that the owners lost interest or other interests took their time but thought (hoped) that they might have sold the site.

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  4. I doubt Kay and Jerry had any idea how well known their site would become when they went online fairly early on in web era. Both devoted a lot of their free time to anonymous strangers emailing the site for advice. And of course, they paid for the bandwidth for the site - and sold a few videos and paddles to help with those expenses - just a little Mom and Pop side business - I doubt they made any real money at it. They both had real jobs and a family. So, I do suspect that while not losing personal interest, that the need to spend more time on family and such necessitated that they spend less time on this "hobby". It was probably somewhat like being a member of a service organization - civic, church, support group, etc - one may be a member and then become one of the active leaders for many years, but then eventually other personal needs come up and it is time to be just a regular member and let others take the lead for a while. Aunt Kay did post a notice essentially asking for someone to step forward to take over. Apparently no one did. Perhaps they will yet. --Al

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    1. does anyone know if the videos DWC produced are still availble somewhere else .
      If not how can one contact Kay or Jerry directly or indirectly
      many thanks
      DG

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  5. Addendum - the guest book was taken down after being hacked. --Al

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  6. Does anyone know why the Mrs Warren post under the Real Section was taken down and does anyone have it and be willing to send it to me?

    Walter

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    1. I've got it but can't post it here as the site only allows less than 5000 characters, sorry.

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  7. I had the pleasure of meeting Aunt Kay and Jerry in 2003, while I was in San Jose. They were lovely. I didn't agree with everything the site did, as personally I felt it could have benefited from being more focused on the lifestyle as a support to relationships, and less on the fun side of spanking (only because there is so much of that). I say this because I think if it had been more vanilla/mainstream it would have attracted much more wives and girl friends, who could then have supported it more. It still lay too much in the realm of men's fantasies - I felt. To back up that point, I think the acid test is, would you direct your friends/wife/mother there, if they were not already Fm DD aware? For me, the answer was no. So if it does come back or something replaces it, I hope that something is more vanilla/mainstream.

    While on the subject of lost websites. Does anyone know what happened to a long since gone treasure that had a great female led forum.

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  8. http://disciplinarywivesclub.wordpress.com/about/

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  9. http://www.auntkaysdwc.com/

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  10. http://justdiscipline.org/abegin.htm

    The whole site

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