Saturday, November 16, 2013

The Forum - Question of the Week No. 27

Hello all,

I hope you all had a good week.  Sorry for the delay in posting this week's question.  One of those days.  More like one of those weeks. On to this week's question, which was a suggestion from one of our Forum members:

Have you ever been spanked in a semi-public situation so that others might have seen or heard the spanking, such as a public restroom, motel room, in the car, beside the car, in the woods, etc.?

Speaking for myself, we have not been particularly inventive in this area.  The riskiest venue, DW has spanked me in was a hotel room, during a vacation.

I hope you all have a good week.  As always, please take a moment to fill in the Guestbook, below.

DH

21 comments:

  1. At one time we used to travel quite a bit, and that involved in staying in hotels. When we traveled the wooden spoon, belt, strop were always with us. Not sure if anyone heard but I have seen some strange looks the next morning. I've also been taken into the woods where my wonderful wife told me to drop them. I'd lean against a tree with my bottom arched out.
    archedone

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  2. We had guests visiting from England - a couple committed to the F/m way of life.

    We were having brunch at a local hotel and the other DWC wife took offense to a joke I made, and rightly so.

    She actually escorted me into the women's rest room. Right there on the lobby floor of the hotel.

    She always carried a purse paddle and applied it fast and hard.

    No one came in. Maybe someone heard the paddling noises. But it was completely embarrassing anyway

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  3. I was taken into a bathroom at a house party with my wife's girl friend standing by the door and given 3 licks with my belt and told if she had to bring me in again everyone at the party would hear me get a real spanking.

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  4. My wife has spanked me in a few public places. At a secluded beach, on the edge of lake surrounded by bushes and in a suburban park on my birthday as we walked home from dinner. No one witnessed these spankings (I think). There was some added excitement about being spanked in a public space I must say and the one by the lake was one of hardest spankings I'd ever received. I have had several witnessed spankings as well over the years. The first was in the early years of my marriage when my mother-in-law was staying with us. I arrived home an hour late for a special dinner and I hadn't called to tell my wife that I would be late. My wife was furious and told me that to go get the hairbrush. I hesitated and said but your mother is here. She replied that I was about to receive a double dose spanking. I received two very hard spankings from both ladies and I required a cushion to sit on while we had our late dinner. A second occasion was when we were visiting my aunt. During our afternoon tea my aunt reminded me how she had once spanked me when I was a boy for turning off the gas meter. She said to my wife I bet he never told you that I put him over my knee and gave him a very sound bare bottom spanking with my hairbrush. My wife smiled and said no he never mentioned that but he has told me about some of the naughty things he did behind your back when he stayed with you. Is that right she said. My wife then suggested that perhaps a second spanking was in order. My aunt agreed that a trip over her knee was a very good idea. My wife chimed in to say that it should be on his bare bottom with a hairbrush. My wife sat there grinning as my aunt with great gusto spanked my bottom till it was glowing red. The most recent and most embarrassing witnessed spanking was about 6 months ago. My wife has a book club and the 6 ladies had been reading a book where a dominant female boss had spanked her younger employee/lover. During one of their meetings my wife disclosed that she regularly spanks me and that we have d/d relationship. To prove the point after I served the ladies tea and cake my wife demonstrated how to give your husband a sound bare bottom spanking with hand and hairbrush. She then offered the ladies a chance to spank me and each of them accepted. My wife has promised me that it was a once off and that in future she would be the only one spanking me.

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  5. Looking back I have actually been spanked several times in semipublic places. I think the most embarrassing was early in our marriage when my wife disciplined me at bedtime over a tantrum I had thrown earlier. Her best friend from college and husband were staying over and the spanking was overheard and commented upon although not in my presence. That deeply embarrassed me realizing that her husband knew I had been spanked. After they left my wife told me he also got it from his wife so I shouldn’t worry about it. But it still bothered me for a long time. Years before that a girlfriend took me upstairs after I had disobeyed her and spanked me in the hallway with her sister downstairs. That girlfriend never stopped a spanking until after I started to cry and her sister heard it. These days my wife doesn’t hesitate to announce a spanking when either of her sisters are in the house. She did it last when both were here over labor day weekend So far neither of them has seen it happen but both have heard it many times.

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  6. My wife has spanked me in a hotel room while on vacation....not sure if others heard but the threat of others hearing was very embarrassing...Another time my wife took me out to the screened in summer porch late at night and put me over her knee and used the paddle on me. I don't think anyone saw but the paddle was very loud and again that heightened the excitement

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  7. I have been spanked (or whipped) quite a few times while were on vacation in France or in Spain, some times out of doors (with a switch she would cut along the way), but also in small family hotels or B&B's where she would use the hairbrush or the martinet she always makes sure to pack in our luggage. I know we must have been overheard on several such occasions! The whippings I got out of doors were more private, but she would, often enough. bring back to our hotel the switch she had previously used on my bare behind -with other guests watching!

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  8. How could I forget the time my Swedish girlfriend cut herself a sturdy switch and proceeded to pull down my bath trunks before whipping me at a lakeside beach in Austria - in full (if distant) view of other vacationers! She brought back the switch to the 'Gasthof' -and used it again later that day!

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  9. My wife and I were on a cruise with my best buddy from college and his wife. On New Years Eve I drank more than I should have. My wife had asked nicely in front of my buddy and his wife to " go easy". I didnt.
    Right after midnight I got into an argument with another passenger that ended up in a small fist fight.

    When we got to our cabin i knew I was in deep trouble. She took my belt and gave me a whipping I would not forget. It was harsh enough to reduce me to tears.

    The next morning while she slept i went out onto the balcony to watch the sunrise. A few minutes later my buddy came out onto his balcony. We sat quietly for a few minutes then he smiled and said to me " Next time you might want to make sure the door to the balcony isnt open "
    hank

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  10. I was spanked in the car on a couple of occasions. On a sales trip a customer instead of adding to his monthly order reduced it, wife was with me and afterward had me stop off and under a bridge she had me come to the passenger side of the car, lower pants and panties: there spanked me with the hairbrush she keeps under the seat.

    Another was for speeding on the interstate: this was done in a restaurant parking lot between two parked trucks inside the car with the seat pushed down and bare ass raised.

    At a convention of hers, after the meetings in the hotel room she used a twase on me for poor table manners. She put the tv on and had me over a chair.

    At Yellowstone park in a camping area I got it for driving too close to a buffalo.

    Numerous times in motels or the woods As she says,"your ass is mine and you Will act like the perfect gentleman or else." aj

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  11. Reading about all these semipublic spankings makes me wonder if anyone who wasn’t supposed to ever stumble into one of them. That happened to me once years ago although the spanking was actually administered in my buddy’s kitchen by his wife so technically I suppose it wasn’t semipublic. My buddy (who goes unnamed) and I had a regular Saturday morning golfing date when I would pick him up at his house early morning and we would grab breakfast before hitting the links. This time he wasn’t waiting outside for me so I opened the kitchen door off the deck to call him. Instead what I saw froze me in my tracks. My buddy, pants and underpants around his ankles was over his wife’s lap while she was vigorously spanking him with a strap of some kind. He was in no position to see me but she did and smiled ever so slightly as I backed out the door. I drove around the block probably a dozen times hoping he would be out waiting for me so I wouldn’t have to go back in. But he wasn’t so I went to the front door and knocked to be met by his still smiling wife who said he “was running a little behind” and would be out soon. In another ten minutes or so he did come out looking I suspect like I do just after my wife warms my ass but he didn’t say anything about it or even acknowledge he was late. As far as I know he has no idea I saw it (unless his wife told him) and he probably has no idea my wife spanks me too. It’s weird when I think about it. We are still good friends and both have wives that spank but we have never shared any of it with each other. Two women in the same situation would probably talk it to death. Go figure

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  12. My wife and I go on holiday on a regular basis,and she always packs a cane to deal with any misbehaviour that may occur when we are away.She has no problem with caning me on my bare bottom in hotel rooms or apartments,and doesn't care who hears or even sees,as it is her theory that we will not see them again.My most humiliating experience was when we stayed in an apparent in Portugal,which had a rooftop balcony,I had too much to drink the night before,and before breakfast,I had to go onto the balcony,totally naked,had to bend over the wall,and was given 50 strokes of the cane,which hurt like nothing on earth.After breakfast she made me drive us to a nearby nudist beach,where I had to spend the whole day showing my bruised and sore bottom to anyone who could see.On our return to the apartment,she told the couple in the next apartment what she had done,and not to be surprised if they did not hear a repeat later in the holiday.When we went to bed I was told that I was not going to have sex for the rest of the holiday.

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  13. This past weekend we were at a party for a friend of my wife. We were at a Resteraunt with about 20 people. I made what I thought was a funny comment which upset my wife. She always carries a large wood hair brush in her purse. She opened her purse and showed me the hair brush. I tried to ignore her and focused on her friends. She excused us and told a few friends we would be back in a few a roughly grabbed my arm. I followed her to the restroom. She looked in the men's room and then dragged me in and locked the door. Once inside she washed my mouth with hand soap, which left me gagging and then blistered my butt with the hair brush. I know others could here and one of her friends was outside when she opened the door me with red face and red butt! I was really embarrassed

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  14. I have no problem with disciplining my husband in public is semi public places.
    We have been in a wife led disciplinary relationship since day one of our marriage,after I had a chat with his mum prior to our wedding.She said the best way of ensuring control over her son was regular use of the cane on his bare bottom.
    We have been married for 30 years and I have always been in control.
    Our honeymoon,started not with sex,but with him having a bare bottom caning.I told him that he was not having sex on honeymoon,and would have to wait until I was ready to start a family.This was not be for a long time.
    We now own a cottage in Spain which we use for holidays and also rent out.As the weather is nice I have made him make a whipping bench in the garden,in view of the road.I have told him that I don't care who sees as we won't see them again.In the lounge I a rack with numerous. Canes,straps,and riding crops.These are put to regular use.
    This summer,we had a couple in their 30s. To stay,she was obviously furious,and told me that her boyfriend had got drunk on the plane and showed her up.
    She saw my rack and asked if they were for use,I said that she could help herself,she asked me for a demonstration,so I told him to strip naked,and walk to the bench in the garden.I showed her how to restrain him on the bench.She asked me what were the most painful implements,I gave her a thick 3 tailed strap,and a heavy riding crop,I gave him a few strokes of each,I was just about to leave her to it,but she insisted that I stayed to watch,as she gave him an unbelievable thrashing.His bottom was red raw and covered in stripes and bruises.I actually felt sorry for him as she told him to get dressed and walk to the shops to buy a couple of pairs of skimpy Speedos so that his bruised bottom would be on constant display for the rest of their holiday.
    When I went to collect the keys at the end of their holiday,she suggested that we keep in touch.They regularly come to our home in England,and her boyfriend is dismayed by the fact I have an identical punishment rack in the lounge at home.He and my husband are regularly punished In front of the rest of us and sometimes selected friends.

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  15. I see no reason why any dominant wife should not spank her husband wherever she wishes.If she is in proper charge,her husband should do what he is told there and then....No argument,I frequently cane my husband in front of friends and family.He. dare not argue with me,as he knows what will happen next.

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  16. A First

    Married 23 years, and I have been disciplined by my wife for 22 of those years. We have twin sons who
    are away at school.
    Although I have been disciplined all of our marriage it has always occurred when the boys were not at home.
    Last nite for the first time they have heard me being spanked. They are home for Thanksgiving I came back home drunk, my wife so angry she took a belt to me in the bedroom. I whimpered and finally the boys knocked on the door to see if we
    were all right.
    "Fine " she said and kept on hitting my now bruised bottom. I am going down now to breakfast
    and will have to face the boys.

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  17. LET ME BEGIN THIS TALE WITH THE ADMISSION THAT I AM A HUSBAND WHO HAS BEEN DISCIPLINED BY HIS WIFE FOR MOST OF OUR MARRIED LIFE. WE HAVE THREE SONS BUT WERE ALWAYS VERY CAREFUL AND MADE SURE THAT THEY WERE NOT AT HOME.

    THOSE SONS ARE NOW MARRIED WITH LIVES OF THEIR OWN. MY OLDEST SON WHO IS 25, LIVES NEARBY. A
    FEW DAYS AGO I STOPPED BY HIS HOME WITH SOME
    PLATTERS MY WIFE ASKED THAT I DROP OFF AT HIS HOME, AS HIS WIFE IS DOING THANKSGIVING.

    IT WAS EARLY ON SUNDAY MORNING AND I JUST WALKED IN THE BACK DOOR WHEN I HEARD THE VERY FAMILIAR SOUND OF PADDLE HITTING FLESH.
    IT WSA CLEAR FROM WHAT I HEARD IT WAS MY BOY BEING PUNISHED. LIKE FATHER , LIKE SON.

    I FROZE FOR A MOMENT THEN QUIETLY SNEAKED OUT AND BACK TO MY CAR. I WAITED FOR A FEW MNUTES AND THEN CALLED FROM MY CELL AND ANNOUNCED I WOULD BE DROPPING OFF THE PLATTERS.

    WHEN I TOLD MY WIFE SHE SMILED AND SAID SHE KNEW.

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  18. I am a disciplinary wife and my husband has been spanked in public. It was at a hotel later in the morning. I was in the middle of spanking Donnie when the hotel cleaning ladies rang the door bell. I told Donnie to stand in the corner with his robe on. Then the cleaning ladies were allowed in. There was Donnie with his panties around his ankles and the paddle near-by on the dresser. They got to giggling and the older one asked him if he had been a bad boy. You cold see his ears getting red with embarrassment. After a short conversation it was decided I should finish Donnie's spanking while they took a break in the room. He was told to remove his robe and waddle back over my knee. He was in a state of shrinkage as waddles past them and his face was beet red. I gave him one of his worst spankings making him lose total control. He was wriggling, and whining looking like a little boy. The younger cleaning lady was wide eyed and older one had a big grin. Worst all for Donnie was when the hotel clerk asked if he was going to behave himself today. He turned red with embarrassment. He realized the cleaning ladies had told others. We were there for a week and he's never been better behaved.

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  19. Yes, I've been spanked in a hotel... did think neighbors probably heard. I was sheepish walking outside those next days!!

    Also, have been given a quick "swat" or two in semi-public...nobody near, but I think people further away saw. Embarrassing... I improved my attitude!
    CD Sara

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  20. A few times - the first was just a few months into our arrangement. We had stopped at an old country type convenience store for some bottled waters. A young, attractive, well endowed, and scantily clad woman walked in right in front of me. Ogling might have been ok, but when my wife saw me flirting with her and the equally hot girl behind the counter, I sealed my fate. When I got back to the car, she told me to go back in ask for the key to the outside restroom on the side of the store. I did - and she marched me into the restroom - following closely with brush in hand. I got bent over the toilet for 30 hard, fast whacks with no warmup. I walked out of the restroom literally sniffling while rubbing my bottom with my wife following - hairbrush in hand. And there was the girl from the counter - who smiled and asked if everything was ok. My wife smiled and replied - "It is now - we just needed to have a little private conversation". I am certain that my face was as red as my bottom as I handed the key back to the young lady. I was grateful that I would not be coming back to this store again - but I'm sure it gave her a good story to tell. --Al

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  21. Oldergent: I'm in my seventies now and still miss the paddlings I received from my honey. She passed away a few years ago. We never got married. In the fifteen years we went together she spanked me about once a year. She wasn't controlling just figured I was getting to big for my britches so they came down, plus the jockey shorts, gently placed over her knees and sternly spanked with a paddle she kept for these rare occasions. We seldom talked about discipline it just came about when I screwed up. The last and hardest spanking was after her work's Xmas party. I told a joke that she warned me not to tell. And I knew better with a mixed crowd. The guys laughed, the women not so much, and the look I got told me what was going to happen when we got home. Nothing was mentioned until I had my pajama top on. She told me to hold off with the bottoms as she got that damn paddle. She sat on the bed, pulled me over her lap and locked my legs under her right thigh. That was the first time I really got scared. That paddle burned my bottom and upper thighs for a good ten minutes. I was screaming, bucking, begging, and crying before she stopped and asked me if the joke was worth it. I just cried and got about ten more smacks. Needless to say from that time on my jokes have been very mild. I recovered, learned, and appreciate the interest and love she had for me. I really miss her.

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